"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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She Bit Me

Oni

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Well, i have never experienced this before but when i was playing around with this girl (i ended up laying on top of her) she playfully bit me so i will let her up. I mean, this is the girl whom i used to be friends with and had lately stopped seeing or talking with her. Today was the first day we hung out together with a group of friends and she pulled out something like that. It's amazing what you can get girls to do when you take away a little attention from them. Anyway, i'm still astounded that she bit me. Not like it hurts or anything but it surprised me. Any takers on this?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Fash

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I remember seeing something on TV once about how sexual and primative biting is and how strongly it portrays affection.

I bite chicks all the time (without it sounding too weird). Places to bite are the back of their necks, innher thighs, shoulders, and palms of their hands. Believe me boys, soon her knickers will fly off!

Looks like the lack of attention has done the trick my man! now go get what's yours!
 

Oni

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Yea, I try to not give her a lot of attention. She hangs out wiht my group and they go out a lot but i always skip out because i dont want to always be there.
 

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As long as she doesn't draw blood, and you don't deck her, it's good.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Weak_Game

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i bite there ear off when we get into a tight hold/hug then i spit it out and its fuking on
 

Oni

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IOI?

Haha thanks for the words of encouragement guys, it boost my confidence a lot. I know that a guy who hangs out in our group has a thing for her but im not even worried, the guy goes nearly everywhere with her. IMO when a guy goes shopping with a girl and bunch of friends, it's over. But then again she is only a "potential." Oh well enough story telling, as the previous post stated.... SARGE ON :D
 

Paintballguy

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This girl I've been seeing likes to bite me... Its not a bad thing at all, just a sign of interest on her part.

I like to bite the back of girl's neck and their ears, drives em nuts.
 

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I like to bite guys i'm interested in too ;) Good way to flirt. Good Sign ;) Keep it up!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Oni

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thanks

well today we were at the beach and when teh day was over she'd ask for a piggy-back ride from me. I can definitely tell she has an interest, but too bad right now i have zero commitment to girls. Oh well :cheer:
 
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