"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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she asks me if I had my v card

afc no more

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i got this girl's number, we have been talking for the past three days, and when we were texting each other, she asks me if I still had my v card. I was like no and I asked her if she did she said no too. does this mean she's really into me if she asks me this? I thought that but she seems to act differently, she doesn't flirt as much. is she trying to play hard to get now or something?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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For some reason i feel if a girl asks you if your a virgin and shes not....that she most probably is down to ****.
 

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Sicx said:
For some reason i feel if a girl asks you if your a virgin and shes not....that she most probably is down to ****.
I would think that's a pretty accurate representation of the matter lol.
 

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I wouldn't think that she's some virgin-hunter, but make the conversations more personal. I find texting leaves too much room for misinterpretation. You really should have said "wouldn't you like to know?" or tried for at least for a live phone chat.

If she's comfortable about talking about that kind of thing, I think I would have some fun with it and keep her thinking about sex. Call her out on it. "So you asked me the other day a pretty personal question, if I had my v-card and all... so it's my turn! Are you usually so nosy or do you always go looking around to take advantage of attractive men?" Maybe better rewording is in order, but she sounds like she's a girl that needs to get knocked off her pedestal and pushed around to respond.
 
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