"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

She asks me for porn!!!

Thread starter PeterCrouch
Start date Jan 25, 2007

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PeterCrouch

Senior Don Juan

#1

Hahaha LOL LMAO etc etc.

One girl, I sometimes talk to on msn, and phone etc but, haven't seen her for a while but theres attraction there just as we live so far away its hard to act upon it as much as we'd like has just said to me

"ur the only person i can really ask coz i dont have to face u everyday.. but please dont ask why.. do u know of any good sites? as in those kinda sites.. and please dont make me say the word!"

Any views?

I ended up not giving her the sites as I had to go but i teased her about it and stuff. any ideas what this means?

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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azanon

Master Don Juan

#2

Some of the latest research I have read showed that women are almost as turned on by visual pornography as men.

She's not afraid to be judged by you for asking, so that's most likely a bad thing. Meaning, if she were more worried about what you thought of her, she'd probably be less inclined to ask you.

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JPFromTally

Senior Don Juan

#3

She's most probably an undercover police officer baiting you into sending her innapropriate material.

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ValleyDJing

Master Don Juan

#4

azanon said:
She's not afraid to be judged by you for asking, so that's most likely a bad thing. Meaning, if she were more worried about what you thought of her, she'd probably be less inclined to ask you.

true.

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ER!C L!VE

Master Don Juan

#5

The word 'PORN'? Ask her what niche she's looking for...group, boy/girl, girl/girl, boy/girl/boy, amateur, teen, etc... It's just about communication. Take the lead. Talk with her about it. Be open. Let her know it's ok to express her sexuality around you and you won't judge her for it. :cheer:

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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DJDamage

Master Don Juan

#6

You are not even tapping this girl so it is really irrelevant if she wants to watch porn or not.

Bible_Belt

Master Don Juan

#7

Erotic fiction, women love the stuff. Romance novels are practically soft-core porn.

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blueguy

Master Don Juan

#8

I don't know how you can somehow possibly imagine that some girl you talk to over msn is interested in you because she asked for porn......... lol

Now it could happen that you end up showing her a porno site and then she starts asking you if you'd like to see her doing whatever is in the pictures. But still she'd just be playing with you.

It's online..........................

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wolf116

Master Don Juan

#9

girls love porn. I've watched one come while masterbating over my girl on girl stuff.

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Pappadapolis

Don Juan

#10

JPFromTally said:
She's most probably an undercover police officer baiting you into sending her innapropriate material.

LOL. My name is Chris Hansen. I'm from Dateline NBC.

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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LAWYER

Banned

#11

I Know Girls Love Porn>>>...

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ValleyDJing

Master Don Juan

#12

Pappadapolis said:
LOL. My name is Chris Hansen. I'm from Dateline NBC.

haha! To catch a predator.

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PeterCrouch

Senior Don Juan

#13

I'm not seeing it as a sign of interest. I wanted peoples views on it. Really thinking about it, I don't find the idea of girls watching porn funny, just this one because I know her so well.

Anyway more importantly, i'm gonna tease her a little more and will send some links and get her talking about it.

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Climax

Master Don Juan

#14

hmmm... *grin*

Tell her to come over to your place so that you guys can make some porn of your own...

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God_of_getting_layed

Master Don Juan

#15

azanon said:
Some of the latest research I have read showed that women are almost as turned on by visual pornography as men.

She's not afraid to be judged by you for asking, so that's most likely a bad thing. Meaning, if she were more worried about what you thought of her, she'd probably be less inclined to ask you.

this is true, women love porn.

Due to society and the "slut thing", some women are ashamed of it, and publically act disgusted, but privately get turned on and actually like it.

Pretty much all women get turned on by it. scientific fact. It seems science is dispelling alot of the myths about women society has beleived, ie women dont like sex as much as men, they dont like porn. they dont get turned on by naked pictures of men or women.<--all myths.

Turns out they like sex, like porn, are very similar to men sexually. Women also place importance on looks like men do when it comes to mate selection, contrary to this boards popular beleif.

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Climax

Master Don Juan

#16

agreed.

God_of_getting_layed said:
this is true, women love porn.

Due to society and the "slut thing", some women are ashamed of it, and publically act disgusted, but privately get turned on and actually like it.

Pretty much all women get turned on by it. scientific fact. It seems science is dispelling alot of the myths about women society has beleived, ie women dont like sex as much as men, they dont like porn. they dont get turned on by naked pictures of men or women.<--all myths.

Turns out they like sex, like porn, are very similar to men sexually. Women also place importance on looks like men do when it comes to mate selection, contrary to this boards popular beleif.

True.

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Oxide

Master Don Juan

#17

Duuuude do not drop the ball!!! She is asking you for porn sites.. that is pretty fukking good right there. Do this:

Make a Cd with videos/ DVD of your best SENSUAL PORN. So porn with a love story and all that **** guys hate to watch..then throw in a vid or two of hard pounding. Tell her you will drop it off at her place.

COme by, make an excuse to stay longer, or just tell her you wanna see her reaction and if she likes the movies. Watch the movies with her. As she gets turned on, tell her you want to see her pleasure herself. Tell her to play with herself. KEY POINT HERE BEING "TELL HER". IF she does, start jerking yourself off and tell her to look at you. Move in for the sexy time!

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ValleyDJing

Master Don Juan

#18

PeterCrouch said:
I'm not seeing it as a sign of interest. I wanted peoples views on it. Really thinking about it, I don't find the idea of girls watching porn funny, just this one because I know her so well.

Anyway more importantly, i'm gonna tease her a little more and will send some links and get her talking about it.

****y funny is good. teasing = flirting and is also good...most of the time. Bro, I would not tease her about this sort of thing. Thats kinda like a girl teasing you if you had a small penis. Its a sensitive subject and you could really embarrass her to the point where she's gonna avoid you.

Oxide, all he has to do is ask her if she wants to make one with him. :crackup:

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Oxide

Master Don Juan

#19

No he doesn't. That is coming on too strong and will probably scare the girl (unless she is already so horny she wants him so much)

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ValleyDJing

Master Don Juan

#20

^^you must be joking. Coming on too strong? And encouraging her to masturbate in front of you and watch you as you masturbate isn't? lol!

I meant he should say that in a joking (but he's not really joking) manner. So if she responds poorly, he was kidding, if she responds eagerly, he was serious.

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