Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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She asks "How would you rate me?"

Jaylan

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Does anyone else get annoyed when a girl asks this?

This girl that I used to see, asked me this. We just started hanging out again but nothings happened again yet.

Anyways I was really annoyed by this question because it seemed like she was seeking some sort of validation and I dont like when girls do that.

How have you guys responded to this question in the past, and does the question bother you. Just seems insecure to me.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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ide do push pull in this situation....." Hmmm, lets see...Maybe.....pause, a -5..wait no, you got nice hair(stroke her hair, "Thats one point" Nice eyes." 2 points" Then ide look at her tits and smerk, then go back to her facial feautures..ide joke around and say, you got cute ears..lol..personally thats something i made up on the spot and would do.
 

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I call this the "I bet you say that to all the guys" theory.

Give her a low number, on purpose. Even if she's a ten. Make it obviously low, like a four or something. I would personally never go lower than a four, unless I make it a ridiculous negative number. It's a solid neg hit, if you do it right -

spend time inspecting her, like Criscco says. Hair, eyes, body, make her turn around for you. Get her to put on a little show, and make her raise her value to you. Approve, and then give her a four. In a kind of "that'll do, pig" voice.

Then ask her. She'll give you a low number, usually. Whether it's high or low, get all C+F and say "Pssh. I bet you say that to all the guys." She'll ask what you mean, or say "no!" and then spill some pseudo-psych, or one of Style's psych openers, and you're in.
 

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Yuma said:
I call this the "I bet you say that to all the guys" theory.

Give her a low number, on purpose. Even if she's a ten. Make it obviously low, like a four or something. I would personally never go lower than a four, unless I make it a ridiculous negative number. It's a solid neg hit, if you do it right -

spend time inspecting her, like Criscco says. Hair, eyes, body, make her turn around for you. Get her to put on a little show, and make her raise her value to you. Approve, and then give her a four. In a kind of "that'll do, pig" voice.

Then ask her. She'll give you a low number, usually. Whether it's high or low, get all C+F and say "Pssh. I bet you say that to all the guys." She'll ask what you mean, or say "no!" and then spill some pseudo-psych, or one of Style's psych openers, and you're in.
Exactly.

Push/Pull works wonders in this situation
 

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- "How would you rate me?"

- "Hmm... 37."

- "What do you mean 37!?"

- "That's your age, right? ;)"

- "No you dummy! ;)"

- "Okay... 720."

- "What's that?"

- "Hopefully your credit score! :D"
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I've ALWAYS said "you're alright" throughout my whole life in response to those sorts or questions. There was a really hot girl in one of my classes once, her friend asked me how I would rate the hot girl, and I just said "she's average :)". I think she then told that to the hot girl she was friends with and she started flirting with me a lot and coming onto me. But anyway, I've always stuck to the middle-of-the-road answer to all questions like that.

You could also try what the other guy said where you stroke her hair and stuff.

I don't advise ever dropping below average even if she's hot. Just dismiss it like "you're okay", it's the best way in my opinion.
 

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It's funny you mention this because when I flirt with a chic and it's going smooth, I sneak in the rating game and rate some random person we notice, then I rate her, but give her a 3 with a playful smile. It cracks them up and takes away their power especially if they're beautiful. It's ****y funny if you pull it off right.
 

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real2 said:
It doesn't matter what you say.

If you are in beastmode state, you look her deep in the eyes, and tell her 'you're a 10 babe, now cut the sh*t, let's f*ck' :cool:
exactly. just tell her what she wants to hear.. If she's asking you what you'd rate her and you're feeling the vibes from her, then she wants to get down your pants obviously. Otherwise, she wouldn't ask.

Some might argue "That's holding her on a pedestal" but it's really not. Women want to find that man that has enough balls to tell them they're a 10 to their face and not be a wimp about it.. Then proceed to fvck her brains out.
 

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"Well, you used to be up here (gesture with your hand) but now because xyz you're sorta down here (gesture lower on the scale)."

I use this one all the time.
 
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