"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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She asked me for my number but...

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Maybe I shouldn't post still a little drunk but... Well I was at this party, and I was having a good time, got a couple of #'s, but nothing else. Anyway this chic that I have known for a couple of months, I had class with her, we were talking and she was like "I have a couple if pics of you from the last party I saw you at, oh and btw whats your number?'". The thing is, through out any other of our interactions, I never cough any IOI's. She is recently removed from a bf who practically had her eating out of his hand, and has just found out some not so appealing things about this guy, if that helps any.

I'm not sure how to handle this, I know that a chic asking for your # is a huge IOI, but thats the first IOI I have gotten from her. Should I pursue this as any other pick up, or should I treat lightly here and see if I get another IOI first?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Dude, seriously, go for it. She's recently removed from a boyfriend from which whom she has found out some unpleasant things?? This probably means cheating, as in she wants to get back at him. Girls are ****ed up like that. You gave her your number, but do you have hers?? If not, get something to happen soon, cause your time is now my friend. Even tonight!!! YOu're drunk from that party, so I'm gonna assume she is too. GO GO GO GO GO GO!!!!!

please update :D
 
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I gave her my number, and when I woke up this morning and checked my phone she texted me so I had hers. And no she wasn't drunk, she was DD'ing for her friends. She doesn't know that her bf cheated on her but I wouldn't doubt it, according to a friend of hers who I started talking after she left, he was an addict, lol, not like that makes a difference.
 
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JimmyBizzle said:
Dude, seriously, go for it. She's recently removed from a boyfriend from which whom she has found out some unpleasant things??
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MAN That's funny!!!

Her name isn't Eve is it?
 
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