"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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She asked if I have a girlfriend--What would you think?

otr4

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I've had my eyes on this really attractive older girl at my work for the last few months (she's 28 and I'm 24). I KNOW, I KNOW, you're not supposed to date people at your work, but at the end of the month she is moving to a city that is an hour and a half away from where we live (so I don't care if we work together). Honestly, I used to think about this girl when I was having sex with my last girlfriend and I really want to hook up.
Anyway, about a month ago I got up the balls to go up and talk to this girl during our hour lunch break. We've had lunch together a few times since then, and TODAY she came up and asked if she could sit with me for lunch.
We got to talking and during the conversation she asked if I have a girlfriend.
What do you guys make of questions like this? Do you think if a girl had ZERO interest in you in a romantic/sexual way, she would ask a question like this? Does this question hint at a more "I'm interested in you" type of vibe?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Ever onward

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let me do a little translation for you

Do you have a girlfriend = I want your nuts

OR

Do you have a girlfriend = My friends and I have a bet if you are gay or not

-cheers
 

HHloser2

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Like he said, Il say its the first option. Go for it
 
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