she asked for money..

[just]

ok..i think something out there wants me to think women have no sense of shame...i just came out of a LTR(4yrs)..and after about almost 3months of whinning and feeling like crap i came to this forum for some advice and i decided to take my ba1ls back and i am starting to get my confidence back.

To the point,so i have been seeing this gal,on and off for 3weeks..nothing has happened,i was so much in a slump after my breakup i wasn't interested in anything..so anyway out of the blue today she texts me telling me to send her money she wants to buy me a gift and other stuf(she traveled to the coast) since she is out of cash!she claims she will pay me back when she returns.

I havent even kissed the gal and she is asking for money!wtf...what happened to all the decent women..did they all just disappear and leave the s1uts behind!am so put off by women right about now

 

[SoldMySoul]

ok..i think something out there wants me to think women have no sense of shame...i just came out of a LTR(4yrs)..and after about almost 3months of whinning and feeling like crap i came to this forum for some advice and i decided to take my ba1ls back and i am starting to get my confidence back.

To the point,so i have been seeing this gal,on and off for 3weeks..nothing has happened,i was so much in a slump after my breakup i wasn't interested in anything..so anyway out of the blue today she texts me telling me to send her money she wants to buy me a gift and other stuf(she traveled to the coast) since she is out of cash!she claims she will pay me back when she returns.

I havent even kissed the gal and she is asking for money!wtf...what happened to all the decent women..did they all just disappear and leave the s1uts behind!am so put off by women right about now

Hey, send me SOME money because I want to buy you a gift...... See how that sounds??? I can guarantee you that if you send some loot to her, you will not get jack and you will never see the money again!

I loaned a fvck buddy $100 over a year ago and knew her for a year and a half before doing so. I have never seen the money I loaned her sorry a$$. Needless to say, I do not deal with her anymore because of her games. Every 3-4 weeks she tries to contact me though playing games.

Sounds not like a winning proposition to me. Whatever you do, DON'T send her $hit!

 

[just]

aint sending jack...just really appaling the number of fakes out there(this chic actually looked and sounded decent)...even worse the sh1t they think they can get away with...bloody daring...talk about ba1ls!

I think the worst part about seeing women for who they truly are..and finally being able to see through their BS...is that you wish you hadn't and had stayed naive...coz you see them in a completely different light!

 

[Strelok]

Send her a single dollar and tell her that what is really important is the thought when it comes of gifts.

 

[grayclif]

Just,
Send HER money to buy YOU a gift!?!? I had an almost identical experience as SoldMySoul and I too never got a dime back. Please don't send her a damm thing.

 

[SoldMySoul]

Send her a single dollar and tell her that what is really important is the thought when it comes of gifts.

Now this is doable!!! That would be funny to do too!

OP, just curious, HOW MUCH DID SHE ASK FOR????

 

[Desdinova]

I'd tell her that I wired her some money and give her a nine or eleven digit number to collect money from the Western Union (their numbers are ten digit). Then when she complains about the number being wrong, send her a blurry scan of the receipt.

That's what I usually do with those Nigerian scammers. Nothing like wasting your vacation making trips to the Western Union for some non-existent money.

 

[Captain]

You're not her bank, don't even waste your time.

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

go buy yourself a nice gift, take a pic of you holding it, and email it to her, saying thanks for the gift.

note: your gift to yourself can be a hooker.

 

[jophil28]

...today she texts me telling me to send her money she wants to buy me a gift...

I would reply, " Go ahead and buy me something nice today. I'll mail you a check tomorrow."

 

[cordoncordon]

Brutal. Just brutal. HUGE red flag. Do NOT get involved with this woman seriously.

 

[just]

i don't plan to send her money...even though she isn't asking for much i just have a policy of not giving women i date money...its setting a bad precedent and i think its just setting yourself up AND it will probably come to bite you in the a$s later on when she starts expecting you to be her sugar daddy and pay all her bills!

i will def try to shag her but that's about it...no further...and in the process i won't even spend a coin...major red flags are involved here...

 

[SoldMySoul]

i don't plan to send her money...even though she isn't asking for much i just have a policy of not giving women i date money...its setting a bad precedent and i think its just setting yourself up AND it will probably come to bite you in the a$s later on when she starts expecting you to be her sugar daddy and pay all her bills!

i will def try to shag her but that's about it...no further...and in the process i won't even spend a coin...major red flags are involved here...

You already loaned the money before posting, didn't ya? Come on, you can be real with us.... Seriously, you never answered my question. How much was she wanting to hold??????

 

[just]

nah..i didn't send her any money...just sent her text late in the night telling her i didn't have my phone and i had just seen the text,she told me to send it the next day if i could....i just ignored...its my cardinal rule not to be a girls bank,they have a way of taking things too far

she wasn't asking for much say...almost 50 dollars...she is young 19...in college...so i thought it was just immature of her...