"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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She asked for a space

Amilz

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Hi... just this afternoon my gf told me that she need a space. we've been together for 6 months and actually for the first 3 months everything goes well. Recently she have to go to other country because she found a new job there. But still we have very good communication. We often had video calls so we can see each other face. For me I don't feel like I did something bad or like being too possessive or protective, all I asked is more like texting a view times in a day. But now she doesn't like it. not anymore. What should I do? It's kinda shocking to me to be honest and i don't want to break up with her Since I love her so much. Thank you.
I was in a long distance relationship for 4 years. I would see my ex twice a month for a weekend at a time or so. She was very pretty and I was getting hit on by women because they saw me in a higher light because I was with a beautiful woman.

I let so many opportunities pass me by because I was loyal to this one girl who I knew deep down we were only working because we weren't around each other constantly. I just wasn't all that interested in her and there were other girls that I was interested in. As soon as she graduated we broke up. Needless to say I don't recommend long distance relationships because it's just prolonging the inevitable. At least in my case it was.

She left the country and she's obviously looking at other options. You will feel very foolish if you ignore the inevitable and pass up on other women.

If you were that desirable to her she wouldn't be in another country right now declaring her need for space. It doesn't get much more obvious than that. It's over and you need to alter your perspective and see it as a positive.
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

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