"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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she asked for a break for a few days i accepted then text her later to end things.

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I have a question, why on earth would anyone want to get to back with someone who has split up with them? Why would anyone want to get back with someone who has shown them so much disrespect? I read this thread and wanted to claw my eyes out of my tiny head.

You did the right thing by ending it, but when something ends it should stay that way. Why is it important to get back some moron who has been leading you up the apples and pears for too long? I don't know why you would want to get back with her, unless you want her back to salvage what little self esteem you have left? Is your self worth that low, that you'd rather be with someone who doesn't even like you, respect you or value you than be single and free to go about your daily business?

You're in a hole and you need to find some rope to get yourself out of it, because from where I'm sat you are digging yourself in deeper.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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drift_king said:
the problem is i suffer from anxiety issues where i cant deal with uncertainty, i've had therapy for it in the past but when it comes to girls i just cant seem to shake it, reading the bible does not help me cos logically it makes sense but in practise my anxiety takes over so me working on inner game just won't work until i can sort out these anxiety problems..

does anyone have suggestions how i could gear it to women specifically?
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Why are you telling yourself things like this? You have alot of negative limiting beliefs about yourself that are nonsense and don't make sense. You're firmly stuck in your own little matrix. Until you get out of it nothing will change for you.
 
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drift_king said:
i suffer from anxiety problems where i cant deal with uncertainty that i had therapy for in the past but i have never been able to apply it to women.
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Nobody can deal with uncertainty. We make up for that by having faith in ourselves, so that whatever happens around, we know to land on our feet.

You don't think like that. You're beating yourself up for some reason. That's what you should be getting therapy for. To at least figure out the problem if anything.

You don't have an anxiety problem. You have something else.
 
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