“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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she asked for a break for a few days i accepted then text her later to end things.

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I have a question, why on earth would anyone want to get to back with someone who has split up with them? Why would anyone want to get back with someone who has shown them so much disrespect? I read this thread and wanted to claw my eyes out of my tiny head.

You did the right thing by ending it, but when something ends it should stay that way. Why is it important to get back some moron who has been leading you up the apples and pears for too long? I don't know why you would want to get back with her, unless you want her back to salvage what little self esteem you have left? Is your self worth that low, that you'd rather be with someone who doesn't even like you, respect you or value you than be single and free to go about your daily business?

You're in a hole and you need to find some rope to get yourself out of it, because from where I'm sat you are digging yourself in deeper.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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drift_king said:
the problem is i suffer from anxiety issues where i cant deal with uncertainty, i've had therapy for it in the past but when it comes to girls i just cant seem to shake it, reading the bible does not help me cos logically it makes sense but in practise my anxiety takes over so me working on inner game just won't work until i can sort out these anxiety problems..

does anyone have suggestions how i could gear it to women specifically?
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Why are you telling yourself things like this? You have alot of negative limiting beliefs about yourself that are nonsense and don't make sense. You're firmly stuck in your own little matrix. Until you get out of it nothing will change for you.
 
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drift_king said:
i suffer from anxiety problems where i cant deal with uncertainty that i had therapy for in the past but i have never been able to apply it to women.
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Nobody can deal with uncertainty. We make up for that by having faith in ourselves, so that whatever happens around, we know to land on our feet.

You don't think like that. You're beating yourself up for some reason. That's what you should be getting therapy for. To at least figure out the problem if anything.

You don't have an anxiety problem. You have something else.
 
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