"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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She always reply to my text next day

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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jjihun said:
So I am currently dating a girl who is 5 years older than me, I am 21 and she is 26 we have good chemistry and we match irl. The problem is that lately maybe after the 4th date she would always answer my text the next day. for example, I would always text her around 10pm which is when I am free and she would reply to the text next day, always around the same time 10am. Sometimes she would reply saying that she is busy but she tells me which date she is free. At the start she would answer my texts in less than a day but since we talked about how we both dislike texting and using phone we agreed on just texting each other to set up dates(we see each other once a week). However, it kind of piss me off that whenever I ask her to meet up, she would always reply my text the next day. I do not know if she is doing it on purpose or she is not interested on me?
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just text her twice the time she takes , so reply every 2 day to her messages , she might have someone higher priority or not that interested.
 
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If you're not first, you're last.

She's just using you as a stop-gap. You'll get dropped when she works it out with her ex.
 
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Since I am currently looking for a long term relationship, I finally decided to move on and start to date with another girl before I get too emotionally invested on her. I am not going to deny that I am a disappointed because she was my ideal type in both physical and personality wise except for the big gap in our age. However, I will still keep on touch with her as friends since she is going to the same college and taking same major as me. I really appreciate all the opinions/advises/insight from all of you! Have a nice day!
 
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