"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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She Aint Goin Anywhere :)

amnbyrd

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The past month or so Ive been going out with this girl here. Im sure you guys are tired of all my posts. lol
This one isnt so much about a problem-more like a realization that Ive come to as of last night.
Things have been good the past few days and well then she straight up asked me if I believed in god. The reason she asks was because a guy saw that I have the satanic bible in my room. Well I told her firmly no. She got all sad and was like well then we can't be together saying religion was important to her-though shes not a jesus freak or anything. Well I confidently/firmly said that I completely understand that and told her that I do care a lot about her and then just left. I dont have any problem standing my ground on this issue even if it means breaking things off. So anyways I left went to my room and like a few minutes later she called back and pretty much said she still wants to be together. Back to normal-she just doesnt wanna talk about the religion thing. Anyways proceded to talk about how she was talking to one of her friends and that she said she told him that she loves me and he pointed out that in the year he's known her shes never obsessed/gotten stressed out over a guy before me, meaning that with previous guys if something went wrong she didnt have a problem dropping things. She says she loves me and that she is attached. Wow, right now it feels as if things are in my court and no matter what(unless I cheat or some dumb **** like that) she isnt going anywhere any time soon.
Its an awesome feeling:up:
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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gherald

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that's nice to hear bro...

really..i'm just tired of reading failures
 

knglerxt

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DJDamage said:
She believes in God yet lives in sin by having sex before marriage??!! and yet she is offended that you don't believe in something that she doesn't hardly follow.

That's exactly what I was thinking. People amaze me sometimes.
 

nicknle

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Haha, it pisses me off so much when people get all serious about their god damned religious beliefs. I always feel as if there's a notion of "I'm superior than you and you're a fool" whenever someone puts their religious beliefs above my atheism. As if they're somehow more enlightened and pious because they call themselves Christians, yet chances are I've read more of the bible than them and know more about the historic progression of Christianity.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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PhatE1vis

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Feeling like that is usually the beginning of the end because it breeds complacency. Be careful and don't forget what got you to your current position.
 
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