"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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She Aint Goin Anywhere :)

amnbyrd

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The past month or so Ive been going out with this girl here. Im sure you guys are tired of all my posts. lol
This one isnt so much about a problem-more like a realization that Ive come to as of last night.
Things have been good the past few days and well then she straight up asked me if I believed in god. The reason she asks was because a guy saw that I have the satanic bible in my room. Well I told her firmly no. She got all sad and was like well then we can't be together saying religion was important to her-though shes not a jesus freak or anything. Well I confidently/firmly said that I completely understand that and told her that I do care a lot about her and then just left. I dont have any problem standing my ground on this issue even if it means breaking things off. So anyways I left went to my room and like a few minutes later she called back and pretty much said she still wants to be together. Back to normal-she just doesnt wanna talk about the religion thing. Anyways proceded to talk about how she was talking to one of her friends and that she said she told him that she loves me and he pointed out that in the year he's known her shes never obsessed/gotten stressed out over a guy before me, meaning that with previous guys if something went wrong she didnt have a problem dropping things. She says she loves me and that she is attached. Wow, right now it feels as if things are in my court and no matter what(unless I cheat or some dumb **** like that) she isnt going anywhere any time soon.
Its an awesome feeling:up:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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gherald

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that's nice to hear bro...

really..i'm just tired of reading failures
 

knglerxt

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DJDamage said:
She believes in God yet lives in sin by having sex before marriage??!! and yet she is offended that you don't believe in something that she doesn't hardly follow.

That's exactly what I was thinking. People amaze me sometimes.
 

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Haha, it pisses me off so much when people get all serious about their god damned religious beliefs. I always feel as if there's a notion of "I'm superior than you and you're a fool" whenever someone puts their religious beliefs above my atheism. As if they're somehow more enlightened and pious because they call themselves Christians, yet chances are I've read more of the bible than them and know more about the historic progression of Christianity.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Feeling like that is usually the beginning of the end because it breeds complacency. Be careful and don't forget what got you to your current position.
 
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