"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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She Admits She Thought of Me As A Challenge

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So lastnight I ask my current gf of two months why she wanted me and went after me. She tells me, because she thought I was a challenge. I remember near the beginning of the relationship I would complain about like 6 girls that all wanted me, but were annoying as hell and none of them could live up to my expectations. This was actually a lie, only 2 of them really wanted me, but she thought this was true and thought of me as a challenge. I didn't think this really worked until I heard it from her.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Nice... your two month relationship's foundation is a lie...

Why the fvck do DJ's lie...
 
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Its not lying, its flirting.
 
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More important question - does she think of you as a challenge now?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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ive been a challenge to every girl ive gotten involved with at first. Currently i was a challenge to this girl hardcore wouldnt even acknowledge her even though i wanted too, it usually worked and there was no games played whatsover from anybody as soon as i showed interest. she freakin seemed crazy for me. but i liked her. I let my guard down and now im freaking chasing her and she turned the tables on me. I think girls mirror a guys behavior initally. shes probably like well he was a challenge to me so now im going to be freakin b1tch and get him back for making me go crazy over him. hahah funny sh*t. guess got to turn the tables again
 
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