"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Shaving zits!

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Well I went back to school last week, and the program I am in requires me to shave every day. Usually I leave the scruff and only keep it trimmed very short but never clean shaven. Well I've been getting a red rash that looks like acne at the bottom of the hair line on my neck. I use an electric shaver because it's quick and I don't use cream.

Any suggestions? It looks like my neck is going through puberty.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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You're almost definitely just drying your skin out (through razor irritation). I'd use a hand razor--with cream--and then use as few strokes as possible. If that doesn't quite do it, you might consider some kind of facial moisturizer after you shave.
 

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Thanks,
Should I try use shaving cream with the electric or scrap it and use the blade?
 

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donjuanjovi said:
Thanks,
Should I try use shaving cream with the electric or scrap it and use the blade?
Never used an electric. But I would try both. Or just try moisturizer after using your electric.

Basically, your skin is dry and irritated. You can either adjust the shaving to make it less abusive or you can use moisturizer to counteract the shaving.

If you use cream though, let it sit on your face for 2-3 minutes first. That will let it actually do its work (or so I hear).
 

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Shower and then shave with cream, 3 blades...= nice smoothness...I find I'm not dry.
-Blinding words Shezz!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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You might also be getting ingrown hairs or whatever

Try shaving WITH the grain instead of against it.

What type of "program" requires you to shave every day?
 

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Skilla_Staz said:
What type of "program" requires you to shave every day?
Thanks for all the tips guys.

It's a pre-service firefighting program. When we use the burn tower or the smoke house we need a good seal on our SCBA face piece and any facial hair will cause it to leak. So they're pretty uptight about facial hair. If you show up with stubble they will tell you to go home and shave, even if we're doing classroom work that day! It sucks ass because I look like I'm 12 :cuss:
 

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Try going to a striaght razor.
Inspired by Vulpine I finally did this. I always used to have red bumps (ingrown hairs and razor burn) on my neck no matter my shaving method. To get a decent shave I had to change my Mach 3 every other shave ($$$$EXPENSIVE$$$).

With a straight-edge my skin irritation is almost completely gone.
I've also become an addict of moisturizing. Moisturize immediatley out of the shower and several times daily. Use LOTS and take your time to rub it in.
 

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What do you know? I just had a razor burn on the back of my head and neck. I use an electric razor to shave my head and neck, and I think I probably shaved to hard and too fast. You have to be gentle and you probably should avoid shaving for a few days till the razor burn heals. If you use an electric shaver, maybe you should use a pre-shave, non-drying lotion that can get your beard prepared for a shave. I used to use one but I got too lazy and stopped using it. Maybe that's why I got razor burn. I'm no expert, but I hope this helps to some degree. If you're still having problems with razor burns, I suggest you see a dermatologist and ask for recommendations on how to shave gently and what skin products to use.
 

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Dear Don Juan Jovi,
Even at my age I am plagued by Shaving induced irritations...I tried everything...In my case I have skin sensitive to oil and grease...First thing when I get up I wash my HANDS I used to use surgical alcohol,now I use a very little Shampoo for sensitive skins,I also wash my face and neck with this...For shaving I use Gillette throw aways,a shaving stick and an old fashioned shaving brush....The spray on shavers are full of grease and electric razors harbour germs...After use,always clean your razor and brush in Metholated Spirits....Beware of Soap it is made from Animal Fat..
Also after cooking over a frying pan clean your face.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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