"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Shaving your genital area...

Poonani Maker

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Do you?

Does not shaving protect you from STDs, as a male?

Does it feel better to you rather than au naturale?

Do you think the girls respond to you better when clean shaven down there?

Does it look better? Do your girlfriends think it looks "hot" or more appealing than full bush?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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my fiancee doesn't real like pubic hair so i shave it. loves....doing that, so i dont' mind.

i will not go down on a woman that has hair, so i can't say i blame her
 

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Interesting topic to discuss.

I don't shave, but I use a trimmer for a close second. As long as you are well groomed, women appreciate that, imo.
 

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Electric trimmers are enough to keep you from looking like a 70's porn star.

Shaving actually helps STDs to spread, as razors make skin abrasions that allow viruses to enter the body.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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gotta admit, i kinda like ths mooth feel after shaving. like a baby's bottom



wow that's gay
 

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I keep mine between 1/8th and 1/4 an inch usually. The only time in my life when I didnt trim at all was when I was a virgin.

Iv tried shaving smooth, didnt like it, looks weird to me when my legs and the rest of my body is still hairy. Not to mention feels weird.

Oh and a girl staying clean shaven is a must for me.
 

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I trim pretty good. I prefer it and it's better then having a girl give me head and have a beard...
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I trim a little bit. Every girl I have talked to about the matter says guys should have pubes, but trimmed a little. If my gf wanted me to, I would shave.
 

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trim fer sure.
shaving myself makes me feel as if i should go buy a banana hammock or something retro gay.
 

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I started off by shaving and that would not only irritate me, but would also irritate my ex (her labia would swell up). Switched to trimming really close and haven't looked back. I'm not a big fan of bush on chicks, and I've never been a fan of my pubes either, so its a nice compromise.
 

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I got waxed earlier this week. Had a hot HB9.5 do it. Thought it would be a turn on when I saw her, but instead it hurt like hell. If you are into pain you should go for it. Definitely every single one of you should try it at least one time in your life. I have video of it if you want to see what they do. Luckily the place was really posh. Regular people would never be allowed in. I felt blessed for that. Feels weird now though. I won't lie, I wouldn't do it again.
 

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So, does it keep hurting after the pull or just at the point when the girl pulls of the wax thing.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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jafyk said:
So, does it keep hurting after the pull or just at the point when the girl pulls of the wax thing.
Right after it came off my adrenaline was going through the roof. Don't really remember much of that. A few hours later I couldn't keep my hand off of that part of my body. I was driving around with one hand down my pants. I don't usually do such a thing. Was sitting at my desk later that day hoping nobody saw me.

It really feels nice in water or when I slowly spread lotion over the region. Nothing sexual about it. I just love rubbing stuff into my "station of love".
 
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