"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Shaving your genital area...

Poonani Maker

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Do you?

Does not shaving protect you from STDs, as a male?

Does it feel better to you rather than au naturale?

Do you think the girls respond to you better when clean shaven down there?

Does it look better? Do your girlfriends think it looks "hot" or more appealing than full bush?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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my fiancee doesn't real like pubic hair so i shave it. loves....doing that, so i dont' mind.

i will not go down on a woman that has hair, so i can't say i blame her
 

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Interesting topic to discuss.

I don't shave, but I use a trimmer for a close second. As long as you are well groomed, women appreciate that, imo.
 

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Electric trimmers are enough to keep you from looking like a 70's porn star.

Shaving actually helps STDs to spread, as razors make skin abrasions that allow viruses to enter the body.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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gotta admit, i kinda like ths mooth feel after shaving. like a baby's bottom



wow that's gay
 

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I keep mine between 1/8th and 1/4 an inch usually. The only time in my life when I didnt trim at all was when I was a virgin.

Iv tried shaving smooth, didnt like it, looks weird to me when my legs and the rest of my body is still hairy. Not to mention feels weird.

Oh and a girl staying clean shaven is a must for me.
 

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I trim pretty good. I prefer it and it's better then having a girl give me head and have a beard...
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I trim a little bit. Every girl I have talked to about the matter says guys should have pubes, but trimmed a little. If my gf wanted me to, I would shave.
 

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trim fer sure.
shaving myself makes me feel as if i should go buy a banana hammock or something retro gay.
 

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I started off by shaving and that would not only irritate me, but would also irritate my ex (her labia would swell up). Switched to trimming really close and haven't looked back. I'm not a big fan of bush on chicks, and I've never been a fan of my pubes either, so its a nice compromise.
 

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I got waxed earlier this week. Had a hot HB9.5 do it. Thought it would be a turn on when I saw her, but instead it hurt like hell. If you are into pain you should go for it. Definitely every single one of you should try it at least one time in your life. I have video of it if you want to see what they do. Luckily the place was really posh. Regular people would never be allowed in. I felt blessed for that. Feels weird now though. I won't lie, I wouldn't do it again.
 

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So, does it keep hurting after the pull or just at the point when the girl pulls of the wax thing.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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jafyk said:
So, does it keep hurting after the pull or just at the point when the girl pulls of the wax thing.
Right after it came off my adrenaline was going through the roof. Don't really remember much of that. A few hours later I couldn't keep my hand off of that part of my body. I was driving around with one hand down my pants. I don't usually do such a thing. Was sitting at my desk later that day hoping nobody saw me.

It really feels nice in water or when I slowly spread lotion over the region. Nothing sexual about it. I just love rubbing stuff into my "station of love".
 
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