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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Shaving - Razor bumps/burn on neck

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I've had this problem ever since I started shaving regularly. I can shave my face itself fine for the most part, but when I shave my neck, I tend to get bad razor burn. I use a Mach 3 Power razor. I've tried other razors, expensive shaving gels, shaving in the shower, using cold water afterwards, etc. Nothing works. Anybody have any suggestions? Thanks.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Do you apply moisturizer afterwards? It doesn't help immediately, but over time it does help to prevent razor burn/bumps.

Also, try holding a hot flannel over your neck for a while. Keep doing it until the stubble starts to feel softer, and then shave.
 

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I get awful razor burn all over my face if I shave without putting on first aid cream afterwards. Just buy a little tube of white first cream from CVS or Target. I use Johnson and Johnson.
 

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Aftershave for Men

My friend had this Gillete aftershave, and always got rashes, even when he used it. I let him try some of my aftershave, and he's never looked back.
 

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Try using "Gilette Sensor Excel" it has 2 blades that shave as close as any 3 blade and almost no irritation.I tried mach 3 but had to stop cause o the reasons you mentioned.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Moved to Health & Fitness...



I also had this problem. I tried using Neosporin, but it didn't make any difference. Then I used Bactroban, which is like Neosporin on steroids - this did the trick, but at $60 a tube, it was too pricey to keep up. Last trip I took to the dermatologist - less than a week ago - I told him about the problem, and he gave me a sample jar of BenzaClin - enough to last a full month. Within 4 days, my red bumps have gone away and I've got a completely clear neck to match my face.

Hope some of this helps - even if you don't have a dermatologist, most will give you a sample if you go into their office, tell them about your problem, and request it from their nurses.
 

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Thanks guys. I'll definitely be trying all of these things, at least until I find something that works. The determatologist office will be the last resort.
 

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yea i have been using sensor excel and nivea aftershave. Had rashed a couple of times thats about it. Wat about schick 3d and that 4 blade one, any good?
 

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Also, make sure you are shaving with the grain and slowly. Many shaving rashes, cuts and bumps can be prevented with a little patience.

Another common cause is applying too much pressure to the razor (which causes it to nick any raised bumps etc). Don't push the razor against your skin, let it glide.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by Dirtheart
Also, make sure you are shaving with the grain and slowly. Many shaving rashes, cuts and bumps can be prevented with a little patience.
I've tried this, but the problem I then run into is that it won't look like I've shaved at all. If I don't shave against the grain I may as well just not shave. I use a Mach 3 as well and have bad razor burn.

Any ideas about the "grain" issue?
 

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Originally posted by ShortTimer
I've tried this, but the problem I then run into is that it won't look like I've shaved at all. If I don't shave against the grain I may as well just not shave. I use a Mach 3 as well and have bad razor burn.

Any ideas about the "grain" issue?
I second this.

I had no idea shaving issues were so widespread. I thought I was a sensitive skinned freak or something.
 

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To the OP, are you black by chance?

I had the same razor bump problems, on the side of my face and on the neck and I got rid of it. I use this product called tendskin (www.tendskin.com) lotion and I buy it at a beauty supply shop. I also use neutrogena for men products, including the neutrogena face wash, face scrub, shaving cream and non-comedogenic (meaning doesn't clog the pores) lotion. I apply the tendskin after I shave and then I apply the lotion as tendskin tends to dry the skin out a little. I shave once every other day and I use gilette sensor excel.

After using this skin care regimen, my razor bumps have disappeared.
 

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Nope, not black. I'm a fair skinned white guy with really sensitive skin apparently.

I'm usually able to shave my face fine. I just get two little patches of razor burn to the left and right of my Adam's Apple and just end up with a terrible neck shave in general. After reading the replies on this thread I picked up some Nivea Natural Cool Shave Gel and Nivea Natural Cool Aftershave Balm. I'm going get a Sensor Excel before my next shave, since that seems to be the razor to use for this problem.
 

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HOW TO SHAVE

1. Wash face with warm water.
2. Apply hot washcloth to face.
3. Apply a warm shaving oil.
4. Apply warm shaving cream.
5. Shave with the grain.
6. Apply more cream.
7. Shave cross-grain.
8. Repeat as needed.

Shaving oil is available at your finer barber shops (the ones that do shaves. In fact, you might want to spend US$40 for a shave from a pro, so you'll know what to do at home.).

You can heat the oil and cream by letting them sit in the washbasin while doing steps 1 and 2.

Use the same hand for applying the oil and cream (I use the left). Don't rinse the hand, just rewet it with water from the razor and lather up your face before each stroke.

I used to get bad razor burn and couldn't use a triple-blade razor before I added the oil to my routine.

Now I have no five o'clock shadow.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by Levex
Try using "Gilette Sensor Excel" it has 2 blades that shave as close as any 3 blade and almost no irritation.I tried mach 3 but had to stop cause o the reasons you mentioned.
Totally agree.

Go with the Gilette Sensor Excel. It worked for me too.
 

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I picked up a Sensor Excel yesterday and shaved with it this morning, along with using Nivea aftershave. I still have the razor burn as usual, but that's probably just because it hadn't fully healed yet. I'm gonna have to go unshaven for a while before I try again, which sucks.
 

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Have you tried Neosporin yet? Pick up a sampler tube for a buck - no way you can go wrong using it.
 
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