"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Shaving pubic area, armpit question

warrior1

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I'm a 21 y/o guy and i never shaved or trimmed my armpit or pubic area ever but now I think i will have to do it because everyone says it looks better if you do. Oops at my title, meant pubic area not groin. My question is whats the difference between shaving and trimming? Also, what is the best product to get the job done?

I have a philips phillshave that i use to shave my mustache. I know it would be disgusting to use that same thing to shave my pubic area and armpits as well so what would be the product you recommend? I know it would be a lot cleaner when armpits have absolutely no hair but would that be the same for the pubic area?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Teflon_Mcgee

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Don't shave you're pits bald. That's a very femmy thing and every girl I've talked to cosiders it a turn off.


For your pubes it's fine to use you're mustache trimmer. Just shower first.
Going bald or just trimming is up to you. Some girls like it bald, some don't. It seems more girls like it just trimmed than bald.


Don't be afraid of body hair. Especially if you are masculine. But keep in mind there is a line between manly beast and gross slob. If you're going to be hairy make sure you're on the manly beast side of things.
 

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I am pretty skinny and don't reeally look that masculine. I don't have much faical hair eventhough i am 21. What's the differnc between shaving pubes and trimming?
 

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shaving is taking it all off, going bald. Trimming is just cutting enough to make it shorter and under control but you still have some pubes. Don't shave your pits
 

warrior1

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would it be fine if i just trim some hair from my pits?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ItWasntMe

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just keep half an inch or so of it. it will grow longer with time regardless. Totally shaved pits looks too feminine to me and most women that I've talked to.
 

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would u suggest m using a scissor and trim it or using the same shaver i use for shaving my mustache?
 

BacardiGuy

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Norelco makes a body groomer that I use to trim mine, works great even on the balls lol. Never nicked/cut myself with it.
 

mrRuckus

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Isn't it nice how females have cornered the market on looking good?

I'm always hearing the sh1t about how ugly dudes are and how we're tanks and they're beautiful porsches yet that's not nature fvcking us, that's females and the rest of society.

The male body can be just as beautiful. But we're not allowed to shave everything or wear makeup to dress up our bodies like they do. Then they get to make fun of us for being disgusting or whatever...

The greeks had it right. Ripped, muscular male statues as a tribute to the USEFUL male body that also looks good as compared to the useless female body only suited for sex and nancy work.

Remember, females are fvcking dirty and disgusting without shaving and makeup. They're almost as hairy as we.
 

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i know some people who actually shave their arm pits, but i suspect that there fags. I've shaved mine twice in the past, but I had to for medical reasons. I heard on a tv program before that some guys shave there pubic hair in order for their **** to look bigger
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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cablecow15

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i would not even trim under arm hairdid in once and is uncofortabe u kno te day after u shve te hairis coming back in its like having that iunder ur armpi very pain full i walked around like a chimp for a week
 
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