"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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shaving correctly...DO IT.

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I'm a recovering AFC, and currently working my appearence. Getting baby smooth skin from a good shave is one tiny piece to the puzzle that's done a lot for my ego recently.

If you can't grow good facial hair (or don't have a strong enough beardline for good looking stubble), then I suggest you wet-shave. On a whim earlier this year I learned how to do it effectively and now I can't go a day without smooth skin. I wet-shave since I have extremely sensitive skin...raking a lubed-up razor across it turns out to be much more gentle then the electric ever was, and it just about cured my occasional acne.

If you take the plunge with this, though, I suggest you get an old injector razor or an old Gillette double-edged (like your grandpa used to use). The Mach 3/Fusion/Schick blades that are out today work OK, but they cost a LOT more money and arguably don't do as well as the DE blades.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Oh, I'm sure they do...they just coast a boatload in comparison. I'm a cheap college kid, so I'm using an old Gillette Fatboy. :D
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Yea I have the fusion that a family member got me and I haven't gone out to get refills yet. I might start going for a cheaper option as I don't see a big difference in shave. I needa get some shaving cream too, i've been using soap for the past 2 months lol ****en lazy
 

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i use the fusion, bought it out of impulse one day and i go to costco for the refills, relatively cheap there.

usually though i'll rock a goatee or fine stubble. the single blade on the fusion helps with defining it.

sometimes if i feel particularly cultural, i'll leave a thin line of stubble on my jawline, forget what it's called but it looks kinda cool.
 

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MascaraSnake said:
If you take the plunge with this, though, I suggest you get an old injector razor or an old Gillette double-edged (like your grandpa used to use). The Mach 3/Fusion/Schick blades that are out today work OK, but they cost a LOT more money and arguably don't do as well as the DE blades.

I got myself an 1972 Gillette Super Adjustable ( some great vintage dealers on ebay ) and also am using a Merkur 34C ( i think it's called "Heavy Duty" in the U.S. ) together with Feather or Personna Blades. Shaving Soap or cream and not the canned goo.

The only way to shave.

No matter what the media tells you, some things can't be improved.

One of the main points of a close and healthy shave is to move over the same spot only as often as absolutely necessary because it damages the skin. If you use a Mach3 you have 3 blades built in, a Quattro has 4. So has the fusion ( or is it already 5? ) Now you move over the difficult areas ( your sideburns, your throat ) how often? Not a good thing.

Forget what the commercials tell you and get a decent razor and the right accessoires and learn to shave with some style. To give it a shot, try a Wilkinson Classic. It comes with blades and is € 3,95 here in germany.

Go to youtube and check out Mantic59's Videos on shaving like it's supposed to be done.
 

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Or go all out and get a cut throat razor.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I don't shave, I use electric hair shears that leave about 1mm growth all over. I look better with regrowth.

But my dad used to use a cut-throat and I looked into getting one because It looks cool and apparently is the closest shave around. If you get a proper one you never even have to buy blades, just sharpen it.

This is the best one for beginners because it's cheep and uses replaceable blades, so you don't have to buy a sharpening stone and strop.
http://www.amazon.com/Dovo-Silver-Shavette-Straight-Replaceable/dp/B000ZX94EU/ref=pd_rhf_p_t_1

Make sure you use proper shaving soap and brush.
 

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YES, some of you shave the old-fashioned way!

The guys on Badger and Blade have converted me, and I've actually got a straight razor in the mail right now. The very low cost of maintaining the edge is reason enough for me to try one out.

(That, and I'd just like to master one to make people shove the 'metrosexual' term up their asses...there's nothing manlier than shaving with a straight.)
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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For guys that shave their head, get either a fusion or a headblade.

I used the headblade for probably a year and a half straight. Loved the thing. The fusion is the best traditional razor I found for shaving the dome without cuts.
 

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this man is right! being half black and white i cant express how much wetshaving is a godsend. if you are prone to razor bumps this will cure. invest in a descent safety razor like an old gillette or a parker (which i use). the blades are even more important. swedish gillettes, derbys or Israeli personnas work great. i use crabtree and evelyns sandlewood shave cream and a edwin jager brush, cost a good 25-35 bucks for each one but the results cant be beaten. shaving is actually enjoyable and i look forward to it everyday. good luck
 

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man iono about u guys but i get free gilette fusion blades in the mail from time to time lol. i hav no idea why
 

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I use electric. Philshave.

WHat I do is have a shower, get out, dry my face, then shave immediately. Get a nice close shave that way. Shaving dry leaves my skin a bit flakey. Then I use moisturiser afterwards.

The real key is to replace the Philishave cutting rotors regularly, so they will be sharp.
 

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I use a small towel with hot water for 5-10 minutes to soften the hairs and to open the pores. Then i lather, wait another few minutes and then shave away!

You can have a close shave or a quick shave. Both at the same time is not possible.

Flava is right: Israeli Personna blades or japanese Feather blades. Derby blades weren't for me. Maybe i have to try them again since they're always recommended.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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