"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Shaving Chest & Armpits

NeedToImprove

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Yay or nay?


Girl asked me this do you shave? Cuz she saw a pic of me without shirt. When i said yes and asked why she said oh nothing! just curious, and didnt talk much after that.


Is it a bad thing? Would you be considered gay for shaving armpits, chest and trimming down under?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Unless you're on the swim team...IT'S GAY AS HELL!

No woman wants to feel stubble on your arms or chest! Trimming down below is fine. In fact "trimming" if you are super hairy is okay, but not shaving your chest & pits. Why on earth would you do that? Do you WANT to look like an under age boy?
 

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No arm pits, but I do shave chest and keep everything else well manicured. Had a lot more complements than complaints. It is all about what makes you comfortable.

Not surprised the WaterTiger is totally against it. To each their own.

Cheers!
 

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every now and then I shave my pits when pit odor grows to be an excessive problem, i.e. I use deodorant and my pits stink 3 or 4 hours later. I don't shave my chest.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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shaving ur arms pits are not that great. when u shave with a razor deodorant burns. use like a beard trimmer or something that will be good. chest shaved is also good. unless you have huge amounts of hair shaving your arms is kind of stupit. you would have to shave them almost everyday. I hate when you bump into another guy and feel the stubs on his arm. shaving the butt to top of the pubes in the front along with the chest and stomach. shaving feet from ankle down is good. shaving legs is stupit. I dont have a lot of hair really. barley any so this is what works for me.
 

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but there will always be women that like shaved and women that like unshaved right? it depends on their tastes i think?
 

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I trim my armpits but I don't shave my chest, mainly because I don't have any hair on it apart from a few fuzzy ones. Some girls are completely excited about that, others prefer a bit more hair but don't complain over it.
 

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I'd recommend TRIMMING your pits, don't shave all the hair, it's a bit girly. Guys are guys, we're supposed to have some hair, more hair than girls. I really don't know what to say about chest hair though.
 

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I trim my armpits when it gets too long.

Shaving your chest is terrible. Its masculine and natural to be hairy. Maybe trim to a decent length if too long, but you want to be decently hairy.

Its a misconception that women have different tastes. All women are instinctively drawn to masculinity. They may say 'i prefer clean shaven men' (or other bs), but hair on chest and rugged stubble is good everytime. Unless you are a professional bodybuilder.

Dont take my word for it, try it for yourself. Be masculine in every aspect of life.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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(JJ)

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eh, my chest hair is sporadic and kinda weird. if it were thick and manly, id probably keep it. but it's not, so i take care of it. plus it always makes me look leaner like i've been watching my diet way more than i have been. never gotten any complaints about chest hair being shaved, but i have gotten made fun of for my weird chest hair in the locker room lol. so i do what makes me comfortable.

the problem with something like this is when someone hears "oh yea i like clean shaven men" from an attractive girl when they've never shaved in their lives and they immediately begin shaving just to impress her. it's the same problem a lot of guys have with everything dealing with women: trying to do everything exactly the way she says to make her happy.

in short... if you wanna shave it, shave it. if you wanna keep it, keep it.
 

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I shave my chest stomach pits c0ck and balls. And don't leave any whiskers behind. Never had a negative response from a girl. WHAT MATTERS IS HOW DO YOU MAKE THEM FEEL WHEN THEY ARE WITH YOU.
 

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Next her!

j/k ;)

Me, I've got so much hair that, unless shaven, I could easily replace Benicio del Toro if they ever decide to do a sequel to The Wolfman. Not only do I charge less, but they would totally be able to save on CG and makeup.

I mean, hair everywhere...chest, pits, ****, balls, belly, back, arms, legs...if I didn't shave it for a year, I could probably build some kinda house out of it.

so I shave everything apart from the arms below the elbow and legs, which I trim just a teensy bit once in a while.
 

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I'm currently reading MMA fighter Forrest Griffin's book Got Fight?. If I remember correctly, by his system, you lose something like 15 man points for manscaping.

Personally, I trim my balls, but I don't shave anything. I shaved my chest for awhile when I was working out but the girls I dated complained about it, so I stopped fücking with it.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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if you work out and have a sexy body then why not? do you see models in ads with hair all over them? no
 

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This forum just went from emasculated to pure gay with this one thread.
 

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some women like smooth body some don't. the girl i'm with thinks a guy with no hair is like sleeping with a girl or an underage boy. myself, i have alot of hair... everywhere. like a werewolf. i trim down there, but i do NOT wax or shave my chest hair at all. i feel more like a man with hair. like an animal ;)

it's usually the 15 year old teeny girls who like guys that look like girls.
 

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OP how buff are you? it kinda makes sense if you havea defined body and lots of buff people do this (they wax tho dont they? not shave) , a normal body...not so much

long nipple hair is ok to be trimmed tho
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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