"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Shaving arms and legs?

Viper423

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Ok, well I don't want to brag, but I do have a nice body, but the problem is have pretty hairy arms and legs. I already shave my chest, stomach, and armpits (girls told me they like em shaved) Well, the other day some girls I know were looking at pictures of me, and they are like," Wow, you've got really hairy arms." I'm pretty embarassed. I think that if I shaved my arms, it would show off my body more, but u can't shave your arms and not shave your legs, so would have to do both eventually. My question is, should I start shaving my arms? What do girls think about it?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Julian

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**** man thats quite the predicament.

I mean if your gorilla hairy you should consider some form of hair removal, especially if your arms resemble the thick underbrush of an amazonian jungle.

Fortunatly i dont have this problem so i cant really say. If you feel comfortable with shaving your arms and legs go ahead.
 

blienk

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Arms without any hair at all would definitely look weird...I'd try and get them trimmed or something instead.
 

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El Schweenador

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I'm with you on this one AC/DC. I'm a really good competitive swimmer, and so I've had to shave my legs and arms for big races quite a few times. Trust me, they can both be really difficult to shave and more importantly, they itch like hell when the hair grows back. So unless the hair on your arms or legs looks like it belongs on your head, i really wouldn't worry about it. If it really bothers you, you can just use clippers like they do at the barber. I have really hairy legs so i do this before I shave for a meet to make the process go faster and it does make a big difference! Hope this helps!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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