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What do you guys think girls prefer? Or does it really matter and do what you like best?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Shaved, or scruff, Glasses or contacts?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
superchristx
Senior Don Juan
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I read about a study once, that said women tend to be more attracted to masculine features while they're ovulating and fertile, and the rest of the month they want a more delicate face. If you're scruffy, your bristles will wear her face raw when you make out. Other than that, glasses or a five-o-clock shadow won't affect the way women perceive you as much as your mannerisms, confidence, and how much fun you are.
Snow Plowman
Master Don Juan
I used to have Glasses and braces...I was a natural then
Now I have no glasses, no braces...I'm a RAFC
Now I dress cool, no glasses, no braces...I'm getting approached by women
My response...
It doesn't matter whether you have glasses or contacts.
As for the scruffness or shaved. It really depends on you're style. But it's always best to get it shaped up, designs if you're pretty fashionable. (Yes side burn designs)
Or you can get a clean shave (Sometimes you look young and if you can't get passed the "Too youn" sh!t test then you're going to have a bit of problems)
Now I have no glasses, no braces...I'm a RAFC
Now I dress cool, no glasses, no braces...I'm getting approached by women
My response...
It doesn't matter whether you have glasses or contacts.
As for the scruffness or shaved. It really depends on you're style. But it's always best to get it shaped up, designs if you're pretty fashionable. (Yes side burn designs)
Or you can get a clean shave (Sometimes you look young and if you can't get passed the "Too youn" sh!t test then you're going to have a bit of problems)
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.