"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Shaved, or scruff, Glasses or contacts?

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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superchristx

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I read about a study once, that said women tend to be more attracted to masculine features while they're ovulating and fertile, and the rest of the month they want a more delicate face. If you're scruffy, your bristles will wear her face raw when you make out. Other than that, glasses or a five-o-clock shadow won't affect the way women perceive you as much as your mannerisms, confidence, and how much fun you are.
 

JLance

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I've gotten girls with glasses and without glasses.

I've gotten girls with a clean shave as well as a scruffy face.

The hottest girl I've slept with so far I had BRACES at the time.

Hope this helps. :)

JLance
 

Snow Plowman

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I used to have Glasses and braces...I was a natural then

Now I have no glasses, no braces...I'm a RAFC

Now I dress cool, no glasses, no braces...I'm getting approached by women

My response...

It doesn't matter whether you have glasses or contacts.

As for the scruffness or shaved. It really depends on you're style. But it's always best to get it shaped up, designs if you're pretty fashionable. (Yes side burn designs)

Or you can get a clean shave (Sometimes you look young and if you can't get passed the "Too youn" sh!t test then you're going to have a bit of problems)
 

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If you wear glasses like I do make sure they are nice stylish frames..don't skimp, your face is the first thing people see of you
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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