"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Shaved my head

Zunder

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Zarky said:
On black guys a shaved head almost always looks fine. On white guys it can look ok or not. For "not," look no further than:

http://seat42f.com/images/stories/t.../S0110/evan-handler-californication-photo.jpg

If you're in a white-collar position it's very difficult to shave it completely, because you look too extreme for the job. For example, I wouldn't recommend it for trial attorneys or surgeons.

I think it largely depends upon the rest of your face. Just like very few women look good with a short "pixie" haircut, not a lot of guys look good with totally shaved heads.
THe guy in the pic is a pudgy slackjaw.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Takes me less than 10 minutes every couple days.
I use a gillette, the blaldes stay sharp for a good week to 10 days.
What you spend on razors, cream etc is more than made up by having to part out for a decent haircut and then maintaining that quaff.
I shave it every day because I hate the velcro feeling. You're right about the money saved on haircuts and shampoo, though.
 

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If you're light skinned and wanna sport the clean shaven head look two rules.

Shave every day or [two days if you have light hair]

Dress better/smarter to balance out the image you present to people.

I went clean shaven couple of years ago. Love it. Tons of attention. Looks great. Chicks constantly want to touch it too lol NO bad hair days.

If you're the right body fat range. Not too fat not too skinny you look ill as **** when you suit up.

Also people assume you're a little loco and **** around with you less.
 
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