"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Shave it or not!!!

Sayajin_Prince

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There has been many things about bald men. Some say girls like men with totally shaved heads ( see tamales and her dj tips from a woman played ) or say they hate it. i have this problem and i really want to shave, but the problem is that i have a very thin face and big ears ( yeah not as big as Dumbo but nevertheless big ). The problem is that if i cut it it will show a lot, if i don't it will show that i'm going bald. I was thinking of letting grow a goatee and shave it totally. i have a great sun tan, green eyes and i workout to stay in shape maybe it could go well and girls wouldn't notice it but it can go the wrong way and you guys kno what happens next... no girls, no p***y.

Need opinions on this

Thanks
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Hollowpoint

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I do believe it is up to the individual. You'll attract some, you'll turn some off.

But you will definately get people touching your head. Uh....the head on your shoulders.
 

Genghis Juan

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The shaved head look doesn't work for everyone. Ask a hair dresser next time you get a hair cut for an honest opinion on whether its a good fit for you. If its not, then you are actually going to look better with the "balding" look. Believe it or not, more often than not, girls really don't care about hair that much. You will just have to work on your DJ skills to the max. Think of the guy from "Just Shoot Me", in the show at least, he pulls alot of tail; not sure if he does in real life.
 

maranathaman

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In my experience, balding has alot less negative effect on women than most guys would think. However, if you're fat, then you won't get much leg, unless you like fatchicks.
 

OzzyBoy

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I would shave it. There is less to worry about then.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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OzzyBoy

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I would shave it. There is less to worry about then. :p
 

CaptainObvious#1

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Hair grows back.
 
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