Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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shat all over that sh!t test

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...I think?

***Lots of fluff talk***
then...
(17:03:14) Dj how about we meet on wed at 745?
(17:03:21) Dj XYZ
(17:04:37) HB8hk alright
(17:04:50) HB8hk are there restaurants there? i havent been to XYZ ever
(17:05:10) Dj oo ok
(17:05:18) Dj yea there are tons of restaurants there haha
(17:05:36) Dj but i dont know that area too well so we can be adventurous :)
(17:05:42) HB8hk yay
(17:05:54) HB8hk that sounds perfect
(17:05:58) HB8hk feel free to invite other people /your friends
***wow, ok, so we already k-closed, whats with the non-intimacy here?? time to **** on this **** test***
(17:07:00) Dj hmm
(17:07:14) Dj would you prefer me to invite other male or other female friends? :p
(17:08:19) HB8hk lol
(17:08:19) HB8hk im indifferent
(17:08:22) HB8hk but they have to be goodlooking
(17:08:29) HB8hk i dont eat with ugly people
(17:08:48) Dj why thank you
(17:08:50) Dj im flattered

(17:09:01) HB8hk though i make exceptions
(17:09:04) HB8hk occassionally
(17:10:27) Dj oh dont worry
(17:10:35) Dj you wont need to make any exceptions for the girls im bringing tomorrow
(17:11:14) Dj i mean wed
(17:12:50) HB8hk oh dont worry
(17:13:12) HB8hk im not concerned about how goodlooking the girls are
(17:13:25) HB8hk more like im worried whether the guy is goodlooking enough :)
(17:13:37) Dj lol i thought you said you were indifferent :p
(17:13:53) HB8hk im indifferent whether you bring guys or girls to dinner
(17:13:58) Dj haha ok
(17:14:08) HB8hk lol
(17:14:12) Dj and yes im good looking enough
(17:14:18) HB8hk jus kidding la.
(17:14:21) HB8hk hahahahaha
(17:14:21) Dj im not bringing anybody to dinner
(17:14:37) Dj you better be satisfied with what you get
(17:14:47) Dj and stop being greedy :p

(17:15:49) HB8hk lol
(17:16:05) HB8hk sigh. i guess i have to lower my expectations then.
(17:17:10) Dj haha stop copying me!!
(17:17:14) Dj i always have low expectations
(17:17:25) Dj that way its harder to be disappointed
(17:20:58) HB8hk hahahah but the people youre meeting seem to be mostly very high-profile
(17:21:06) HB8hk like the girl thats so pretty that she gets free rides on cabs
***IOI? :)***
(17:21:35) Dj LOL
(17:21:50) Dj dont be jealous
(17:21:59) Dj you'll get a free cab ride someday :p
(17:22:12) Dj maybe

***a little more fluff talk and then I end the convo on a high note***
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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dj_china said:
...I think?

***Lots of fluff talk***
then...
(17:03:14) Dj how about we meet on wed at 745?
(17:03:21) Dj XYZ
(17:04:37) HB8hk alright
(17:04:50) HB8hk are there restaurants there? i havent been to XYZ ever
(17:05:10) Dj oo ok
(17:05:18) Dj yea there are tons of restaurants there haha
(17:05:36) Dj but i dont know that area too well so we can be adventurous :)
(17:05:42) HB8hk yay
(17:05:54) HB8hk that sounds perfect
(17:05:58) HB8hk feel free to invite other people /your friends
***wow, ok, so we already k-closed, whats with the non-intimacy here?? time to **** on this **** test***
(17:07:00) Dj hmm
(17:07:14) Dj would you prefer me to invite other male or other female friends? :p
(17:08:19) HB8hk lol
(17:08:19) HB8hk im indifferent
(17:08:22) HB8hk but they have to be goodlooking
(17:08:29) HB8hk i dont eat with ugly people
(17:08:48) Dj why thank you
(17:08:50) Dj im flattered

(17:09:01) HB8hk though i make exceptions
(17:09:04) HB8hk occassionally
(17:10:27) Dj oh dont worry
(17:10:35) Dj you wont need to make any exceptions for the girls im bringing tomorrow
(17:11:14) Dj i mean wed
(17:12:50) HB8hk oh dont worry
(17:13:12) HB8hk im not concerned about how goodlooking the girls are
(17:13:25) HB8hk more like im worried whether the guy is goodlooking enough :)
(17:13:37) Dj lol i thought you said you were indifferent :p
(17:13:53) HB8hk im indifferent whether you bring guys or girls to dinner
(17:13:58) Dj haha ok
(17:14:08) HB8hk lol
(17:14:12) Dj and yes im good looking enough
(17:14:18) HB8hk jus kidding la.
(17:14:21) HB8hk hahahahaha
(17:14:21) Dj im not bringing anybody to dinner
(17:14:37) Dj you better be satisfied with what you get
(17:14:47) Dj and stop being greedy :p

(17:15:49) HB8hk lol
(17:16:05) HB8hk sigh. i guess i have to lower my expectations then.
(17:17:10) Dj haha stop copying me!!
(17:17:14) Dj i always have low expectations
(17:17:25) Dj that way its harder to be disappointed
(17:20:58) HB8hk hahahah but the people youre meeting seem to be mostly very high-profile
(17:21:06) HB8hk like the girl thats so pretty that she gets free rides on cabs
***IOI? :)***
(17:21:35) Dj LOL
(17:21:50) Dj dont be jealous
(17:21:59) Dj you'll get a free cab ride someday :p
(17:22:12) Dj maybe

***a little more fluff talk and then I end the convo on a high note***
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I more got the sense that maybe she just doesnt feel comfortable enough with you to hang out 1 on 1 yet. But you got her alone either way, so work your game. Good luck but remember, girls wont do **** if they aren't comfortable, so being in a place shes never been to before with someone she doesn't know that well is a little bit of a risk
 
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I get the sense that you feel like she's too good for you.

Act like she's an ugly girl you dont care about and youll be more comfortable.

Should have just said the obvious 'Why would i bring my friends?' or 'What are you talking about?'. Talking down to people is good.
 
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dj_china

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EASE said:
I get the sense that you feel like she's too good for you.

Act like she's an ugly girl you dont care about and youll be more comfortable.

Should have just said the obvious 'Why would i bring my friends?' or 'What are you talking about?'. Talking down to people is good.
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I definitely don't think she's too good for me. its hard to feel that when you're juggling 5 girls at once :)

but nice suggestion Ease, "why would i bring my friends"
damn, I overcomplicated this whole interaction lol
haha thanks
 
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