“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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shat all over that sh!t test

dj_china

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...I think?

***Lots of fluff talk***
then...
(17:03:14) Dj how about we meet on wed at 745?
(17:03:21) Dj XYZ
(17:04:37) HB8hk alright
(17:04:50) HB8hk are there restaurants there? i havent been to XYZ ever
(17:05:10) Dj oo ok
(17:05:18) Dj yea there are tons of restaurants there haha
(17:05:36) Dj but i dont know that area too well so we can be adventurous :)
(17:05:42) HB8hk yay
(17:05:54) HB8hk that sounds perfect
(17:05:58) HB8hk feel free to invite other people /your friends
***wow, ok, so we already k-closed, whats with the non-intimacy here?? time to **** on this **** test***
(17:07:00) Dj hmm
(17:07:14) Dj would you prefer me to invite other male or other female friends? :p
(17:08:19) HB8hk lol
(17:08:19) HB8hk im indifferent
(17:08:22) HB8hk but they have to be goodlooking
(17:08:29) HB8hk i dont eat with ugly people
(17:08:48) Dj why thank you
(17:08:50) Dj im flattered

(17:09:01) HB8hk though i make exceptions
(17:09:04) HB8hk occassionally
(17:10:27) Dj oh dont worry
(17:10:35) Dj you wont need to make any exceptions for the girls im bringing tomorrow
(17:11:14) Dj i mean wed
(17:12:50) HB8hk oh dont worry
(17:13:12) HB8hk im not concerned about how goodlooking the girls are
(17:13:25) HB8hk more like im worried whether the guy is goodlooking enough :)
(17:13:37) Dj lol i thought you said you were indifferent :p
(17:13:53) HB8hk im indifferent whether you bring guys or girls to dinner
(17:13:58) Dj haha ok
(17:14:08) HB8hk lol
(17:14:12) Dj and yes im good looking enough
(17:14:18) HB8hk jus kidding la.
(17:14:21) HB8hk hahahahaha
(17:14:21) Dj im not bringing anybody to dinner
(17:14:37) Dj you better be satisfied with what you get
(17:14:47) Dj and stop being greedy :p

(17:15:49) HB8hk lol
(17:16:05) HB8hk sigh. i guess i have to lower my expectations then.
(17:17:10) Dj haha stop copying me!!
(17:17:14) Dj i always have low expectations
(17:17:25) Dj that way its harder to be disappointed
(17:20:58) HB8hk hahahah but the people youre meeting seem to be mostly very high-profile
(17:21:06) HB8hk like the girl thats so pretty that she gets free rides on cabs
***IOI? :)***
(17:21:35) Dj LOL
(17:21:50) Dj dont be jealous
(17:21:59) Dj you'll get a free cab ride someday :p
(17:22:12) Dj maybe

***a little more fluff talk and then I end the convo on a high note***
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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dj_china said:
...I think?

***Lots of fluff talk***
then...
(17:03:14) Dj how about we meet on wed at 745?
(17:03:21) Dj XYZ
(17:04:37) HB8hk alright
(17:04:50) HB8hk are there restaurants there? i havent been to XYZ ever
(17:05:10) Dj oo ok
(17:05:18) Dj yea there are tons of restaurants there haha
(17:05:36) Dj but i dont know that area too well so we can be adventurous :)
(17:05:42) HB8hk yay
(17:05:54) HB8hk that sounds perfect
(17:05:58) HB8hk feel free to invite other people /your friends
***wow, ok, so we already k-closed, whats with the non-intimacy here?? time to **** on this **** test***
(17:07:00) Dj hmm
(17:07:14) Dj would you prefer me to invite other male or other female friends? :p
(17:08:19) HB8hk lol
(17:08:19) HB8hk im indifferent
(17:08:22) HB8hk but they have to be goodlooking
(17:08:29) HB8hk i dont eat with ugly people
(17:08:48) Dj why thank you
(17:08:50) Dj im flattered

(17:09:01) HB8hk though i make exceptions
(17:09:04) HB8hk occassionally
(17:10:27) Dj oh dont worry
(17:10:35) Dj you wont need to make any exceptions for the girls im bringing tomorrow
(17:11:14) Dj i mean wed
(17:12:50) HB8hk oh dont worry
(17:13:12) HB8hk im not concerned about how goodlooking the girls are
(17:13:25) HB8hk more like im worried whether the guy is goodlooking enough :)
(17:13:37) Dj lol i thought you said you were indifferent :p
(17:13:53) HB8hk im indifferent whether you bring guys or girls to dinner
(17:13:58) Dj haha ok
(17:14:08) HB8hk lol
(17:14:12) Dj and yes im good looking enough
(17:14:18) HB8hk jus kidding la.
(17:14:21) HB8hk hahahahaha
(17:14:21) Dj im not bringing anybody to dinner
(17:14:37) Dj you better be satisfied with what you get
(17:14:47) Dj and stop being greedy :p

(17:15:49) HB8hk lol
(17:16:05) HB8hk sigh. i guess i have to lower my expectations then.
(17:17:10) Dj haha stop copying me!!
(17:17:14) Dj i always have low expectations
(17:17:25) Dj that way its harder to be disappointed
(17:20:58) HB8hk hahahah but the people youre meeting seem to be mostly very high-profile
(17:21:06) HB8hk like the girl thats so pretty that she gets free rides on cabs
***IOI? :)***
(17:21:35) Dj LOL
(17:21:50) Dj dont be jealous
(17:21:59) Dj you'll get a free cab ride someday :p
(17:22:12) Dj maybe

***a little more fluff talk and then I end the convo on a high note***
I more got the sense that maybe she just doesnt feel comfortable enough with you to hang out 1 on 1 yet. But you got her alone either way, so work your game. Good luck but remember, girls wont do **** if they aren't comfortable, so being in a place shes never been to before with someone she doesn't know that well is a little bit of a risk
 

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I get the sense that you feel like she's too good for you.

Act like she's an ugly girl you dont care about and youll be more comfortable.

Should have just said the obvious 'Why would i bring my friends?' or 'What are you talking about?'. Talking down to people is good.
 

dj_china

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EASE said:
I get the sense that you feel like she's too good for you.

Act like she's an ugly girl you dont care about and youll be more comfortable.

Should have just said the obvious 'Why would i bring my friends?' or 'What are you talking about?'. Talking down to people is good.
I definitely don't think she's too good for me. its hard to feel that when you're juggling 5 girls at once :)

but nice suggestion Ease, "why would i bring my friends"
damn, I overcomplicated this whole interaction lol
haha thanks
 
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