"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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spesmilitis

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Occasionally, when I get in a scrunched up position, I get a sharp pain a few inched down and to the right of my abs. I got it at the last 3 judo practiced I went to when drilling soei nage, (right when you turn your back to the opponent). I also felt it when I was putting weights away and I squatted down low to rerack a 45. At first I though it was just my cup getting positioned weird and digging into my abdominal area, but its not.

It happens occasionally and I have trouble recreating the position that causes the pain, but it is whenever im scrunched up (like a sloppy deep squat with bad form). Sorta like a fetal position. I have not gotten this pain while doing deadlifts, proper squats or BJJ practices. Just seoi nage and sloppy deep squats. ( I was doing a sloppy deep squats when putting weights away for my job, not when actually doing squats). When I get the pain, I straighten up, and I still have a 'feel' of that pain for a couple seconds. Other then that I feel fine all the other times.

Is this a potential hernia or something?

BTW: Seoi nage
http://www.judoonline.de/bilder/wuerfe_ippon-seoi-nage-zeich.jpg

I'll see a doctor about this, but I have feeling he/she won't know what to make of it since I only have it only at select positions and only a fraction of the times I am in those positions. The doctors on campus are kinda dumb . . . I have a feeling most of them got the job via connections.
 

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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Like, a few inches below your belly button and to the right?
 

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wow, I happen to have the exact same thing except mine was kinda more like 3 inches down and 1 to the right lol but generally same area... I haven't felt it in quiet a while though it would always bother me during ab exercises such as the bicycle mostly, and not really much else...

I do not know what it is though lol, and I was/still curious myself, if I press there I can feel some pain... I hope it's nothing serious and I'm kinda relieved knowing I'm not the only one
 

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I can press on mine and it doesn't hurt. Actually I went to judo practice today and did the throw, except I kept my core tight and back arched as if I was doing a squat, and I didn't get the pain.

If you can press it anytime and it hurts, you defiantly need to see a doctor. Come to think of it, I need to see one as well.
 

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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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True, I should, but I don't want to... it can't get worse... so far it has only been improving, but yeah... ****ed up situations lol
 

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Someone on another forum said it could be a potential or partial hernia. I have no idea what to do about this. My guess would be to work on core with perfect form (don't scrunch).
 

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Have you considered seeking the advice of a doctor?

with the little info you give us, it's hard to tell you what you have.
 

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Does it affect you when you urinate? i.e. does it hurt when you take a leak?
 

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No, it don't feel it at all except for occasional incidents where I strunch up. Think of doing squats in a fetal position.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Get it checked out by a Doctor.
 

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it could be a hernia but it also could be your appendix which is located around where you are talking.
i had funny pains for 2 years but they were right around my belly button, but to the side. it was a big ass kidney stone that was stuck in my kidney. you could have one of those.
if the pain gets bad enough, you will go to the dr and find out, right?
 

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penkitten said:
it could be a hernia but it also could be your appendix which is located around where you are talking.
i had funny pains for 2 years but they were right around my belly button, but to the side. it was a big ass kidney stone that was stuck in my kidney. you could have one of those.
if the pain gets bad enough, you will go to the dr and find out, right?
Yup. Thanks for the heads up.
 
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