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If you have been dating someone for over a year is it ok to check her phone/text messages without her knowing?

What about sharing your passwords to email/facebook? Is that a good or bad idea?
 

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Bud_Fox said:
If you have been dating someone for over a year is it ok to check her phone/text messages without her knowing?

What about sharing your passwords to email/facebook? Is that a good or bad idea?
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Hell no! Maybe if I was married, but even then I wouldn't see the necessity behind it.

If you're getting the feeling in your gut where you need to check your girlfriend's email and cell phone, and you're not completely paranoid/insane.. Then something's probably up.

In the end I guess, it's all about what you want. If you're cool with this and don't see it as a big deal, then it's not. If you're not cool with it and you enjoy your right to privacy, then it is a big deal. I'm sure every guy no matter how long he's been married will have a phone conversation, text conversation, or send some emails that could put him in hot water.. Same goes with the woman, even though they may not even be a big deal (they could be misinterpreted too).. I'd say it's best to let both people have their privacy in those worlds. If something's up, you'll feel it in your gut.
 
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Try not to do it all the time. I think its ok as long as you 100% dont let it show that anything you find bothers you, just make a note and make sure you subtly correct game eg if shes texing other guys a lot maybe your not giving enough attention...
 

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:kick: Hell no. Your privacy is priceless. There are some things that you keep to yourself 100% regardless of how long you've been with a woman; your phone and your passwords are on that list. Do not "give" yourself to a woman all the way. Always maintain some of your individuality and do not consider marriage until you've been with someone for at least two years.
 
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f283000 said:
Why would you share your passwords with your girlfriend??? Seriously this is one of the most stupid things I have read on this forum.

You don't share your email and other passwords with ANYONE! What's wrong with you brother?
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This guy has a history of asking stupid questions.

I'd advise against taking him seriously. In fact, I'd advise against paying attention to him at all.
 
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