"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Sharing My Mentality

BigSmooth

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I posted this in the Discussions section but feel that it's more suited here.


I carry these mentalities into my relationships, social life, school, and the business world.


1. Always remember to have fun. As you learn the inner workings of connecting with people, dealing with women, approaching, talking, you find out that sometimes you win and sometimes you lose. However, you ALWAYS learn. Always remember to have fun.


2. Most people never win because they are afraid of losing.


3. Winners are not afraid of losing. But losers are. Failure is part of the process of success. People who avoid failure also avoid success.


4. Be proactive. Don't let opportunities pass by you. Don't let the world pass you by.


5. The greatest power you have is your knowledge. (You chose to become proactive and come to this website to further your knowledge. That's commendable, and you have an advantage over other people. Now use this knowledge, and ACT. Don't waste it.)

6. Don't be the kind of person who has no guts, who gives up every time life pushes you. If you're that kind of person, you'll live all your life playing it safe, doing the right things, saving yourself for some event that never happens. Then you die a boring old man. You'll have lots of friends who really like you because you were such a nice hardworking guy.

But the truth is that you let life push you into submission. Deep down you were terrified of taking risks. You really wanted to win, but the fear of losing was greater than the excitement of winning. Deep inside, you and only you will know you didn't go for it. You chose to play it safe.



I hold these mentalities not just in my relationship life and social life, but with business and school. Whether it be dealing with investments, finance, college, networking, I believe and act with these mentalities.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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ilikecharlene

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sound wisdom lol..

I agree it takes courage and being proactive to get what one wants in life. To me, life is about setting goals and having something to strive for.
 

iwanttofight

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Well said my friend, well I like your thoughts. I know we are not friends yet but I would be friends with you because you have my same point of views in life, cheers.
 
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