Almost a Perfect Date
My best date in recent memory happened last Sunday. It all seems ridiculous now, but it happened. This date is staged into several dates because it never stopped. Its a bit long winded but worth reading for all the DJ applications.
I found this girl off the internet and agreed to meet her for lunch around where she lives. I had to delay the date over an hour because my alternator died on the way down. I luckily found a shop and got it fixed. This was simply a miracle, so I had a good vibe about meeting her. I think that having a positive vibe is key to scoring with women. I arrived a little earlier than I expected, so I scoped out the town and the bar we were going to meet. I made a few friends with the bartenders and asked where a good pplace to eat was and where to go for a walk near the water if the date went well.
Date 1 of 6 (Meet for a drink)
She showed up looking almost 6 ft tall and very nicely built. I'd give her an 8.0, but others might think less or more of her. I shined her with a big smile and bought her a drink. The place was a little dark, so I moved closer to her as we talked, pretending to need to hear her better. Dark places are great on a sunny day because it seems dangerous. She was shy, so I tried not to push EC too much. I joked with some C&F about some things on her profile. I could tell she was impressed that I salvaged meeting her due to my car problems. I was her spontaneous hero already.
After a few drinks, I gave her some light kino on her arm and leg. Soon, I was sitting very close with her knee between my legs. This is the best approach and position I've found when you meet a girl at a bar for drinks. You just inch closer every time you get positive feedback. She tells me she feels very comfortable with me for only knowing me a short time. That's my invitation. I stretch and give her a soft kiss. From her profile, she claimed that she only likes men that are good kissers. God I love internet dating. This was too easy. I hadn't even known her an hour yet.
Date 2 of 5 (Let's Eat)
We walk to a seafood joint next door and we are now both a little buzzed. Too late for lunch, so we order some raw oysters, food, and more drinks. This chick is definitely the bomb. After sucking back a few beers, I kiss her again. Like an outdoor french cafe, the whole place seems to observe and groove on our energy, but we don't care. There is such a stronger connection with her than with anyone I've ever met initially. Or maybe its just a great date. We need to go somewhere.
Date 3 of 5 (Premature Hook-up and She Flakes out)
I tell her that we should find a quiet place like a nice hotel in the harbor nearby and chill out where it is more quiet. I am not made of money although I did spend it that night, but I gambled here that if she accepted I would sleep with her. She mentions that its been a long time since her last guy, over 2 years. WOW! That kind of shocked me. What could be wrong with her? She hesitated and as I was about to get in my car to leave she agreed. The indian cab driver called me "Mister James Bond" several times on the way to the hotel. I couldn't have paid him enough of a tip. Our night together was not great as she actually hadn't been with anyone for a long time, so she was very, very nervous. That was fine because the date was not over yet.
Date 4 of 5 (Consumating the Date)
Early the next morning, I woke up and started again on her. This time she responded and we had several very nice moments. She had off work that day. I called in sick, so as not to rush away. I had to fight the tendency to just bail out as the date was getting more intense the longer it went on. When every thing is going right, you don't question yourself and go with the the flow. We stayed in the room until lunch making out and taking a shower together.
Date 5 of 5 (Perfect Day After)
The harbor was warm and sunny. I suggested that we get lunch and take a walk as we were both free. We walked along the harbor, sitting on benchs, kissing, and talking. We both bought souveniers which keeps me on her mind when I am gone. We got a cab back to where we met. One the bartenders saw us on the street and asked us how the date went. She realized that were still in the same clothes and we all laughed.
I am taking her to my beach place this weekend. I know I'm overdosing on her, but I don't care for now. Whereever it goes, it goes. The worst case is this girl is like a comet and we burn out fast. I used several DJ techniques in the above, many I just learned. Dealing with her flaking out was the only downside to the experience. I'll be better at handling and minimizing this the next time around.
Batter up.
