Share with us your favourite day and night game opener!

[narcissist]

Post here an example of some openers for either day game or night game and what environment that they are best suited for (club, grocery store, prison cell, mortuary, etc). Also give us the reason why you like to use that opener, whether you simply do it because it makes you f*cking crack up, whether you do it because it's effectiveness is unparalleled, maybe you do it for the momentum, or even shock value, etc.

For me, my favourite night game opener is going up to the hottest girl in the club, or on the street, and kneeling down and proposing to her, with a huge smirk on my face. It is extremely effective in building immediate rapport, it is a very bold and confident move, and you can, right off the bat, start touching her (grabbing hands when proposing, then hugging and lifting her up when she says yes - which even if she says no, just pretend like she said yes). You can talk about what you're going to name your kids, and who is going to cook, blah blah blah. So its bold, builds immediate rapport, and there is a lot to work with. Also if she shuts you down, leave, then wait 5-10 minutes and go up and do it again. Most guys will not go back up to the 10/10 a second time after she says "f*ck off" or any variant of that. But if you do, she will be infinitely more wet, because you are not intimidated by her looks. Every time I go up a second time and do it, the response is way better than the first time, and i can sometimes pull a number or make out or fvck close.

I like to use this specifically for my first couple approaches, just so I don't get into the value scanning state, and then after I do it and the momentum is high, i simply ride the momentum and usually have a killer night, filled with a plethora or different approaches using different openers.

Anyways. Share away

 

[narcissist]

Day -

I find 2 girls sitting down together, walk up, casually sit down, and say "Sorry I'm late. (sly smile) I'm LOTA."

Night -

(matching her energy while pointing straight at her from a distance - walk up, grab her hand, hug her) "Hey, I'm LOTA."

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There really is far too much conversation on this forum about 'the right thing to say'.

No such thing.

Be yourself. Be casual. Have fun.

With that being said, I am interested to hear what you all do.

I agree with you 100% with your contention that there is no "best" or "perfect" thing to say. The most important thing is to execute and be self-amused. You could literally go up to a girl and say "hey, are you a terrorist?" and if you have a sly smile, and say it will implicit sexuality, she'd be responsive.

I do think that if you are going out to game, you should try and have as much fun as feasibly possible, for yourself, and to me that is the point of openers, and ridiculous lines, and sh*t like that. It's to make yourself laugh and have fun, and try and get hilarious reactions out of the girls you approach. Of course, theres an art to executing openers, without making it seem contrived and planned - which if not perfected can actually hurt your game drastically. But I find game would become monotonously boring for yourself if you did the same approach every time. That is the only reason why I advocate doing different openers, and saying different sh*t. It keeps game fresh and exciting, and you inevitably add a lot of awesome life stories and experiences to your repertoire, making you vastly more interesting than the majority of other people. Well, thats my philosophy on the matter.

 

[NSX-R]

Use the surroundings to come with a line and follow by introducing yourself. But I believe the simplest things are the most effective so go in , introduce yourself and let the thing flow.

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

Embrace your instincts fellow DJs

Be yourself. Be casual. Have fun.

The problem with that is that people interpret 'being yourself' as follow your emotions and what you FEEL like doing. This is not embracing one's instincts, rather quite the opposite. In order to be one's self, they must undo all their inhibitions. Take off all social restraints. The only reason for not saying/doing something would be because you instinctively know that the disadvantages far outweigh the positive advantages. Once this point is reached, you are at home with the world, you are in sync with nature. You ARE natural.