"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Shannon Sharpe what's the deal

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What happened man? Should have not married a modern feministic woman that would take half his cash in the divorce courts....should have stayed smart and get a traditional, foreign woman abroad or something.
 

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White folks are worldwide considered more attractive than any other race.
 

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Shannon problem is dealing with a 19-year-old who was not into him for him but for his $$$$
The girl was only in it for the money
The guy is rich and yes, dealing with a younger woman, but Shannon, according to sosuave fits all the archetypes to be successful with younger women

-He's in shape, easily top 0.000001% for his age group, 0.01% overall
-He's famous and got clout due to his podcast as well as being a NFL Hall Of Famer
-He's rich and was about to sign a $100 million dollar deal for his media company

So what went wrong? what went wrong is that he thought he could control a younger woman who was looking at the situation as business and Shannon was looking at as sex, kink. He was smutting her out treating her like a booty call and had other women to that he was dealing with. The 19-year-old got jealous and began recording phone calls.

Now a days a lot of men have to realize that these women, save screenshots, text messages, record voicecalls etc. They younger women of this generation also are very entitled and sensitive compared to prior so you have to mindful to naivagate that. IMO Shannon could have got a late 30s women just as hot or even hotter who would have been discreet but more importantly, would have enjoyed his kinks. And not some 19-year-old feminist SJW trying to get "25K for each cheek"
 
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