"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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SHALLOW HB10's OR SMARTER H7's

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I know i'm going to get flamed for this but it's hard to find a girl who is as goodlooking as a supermodel and smart. Most girls that are not as goodlooking are much smarter. So, the question, what do you all think is more fulfilling. A 10 that most likely won't help you grow as a man (but you'll get the crazy sex), or not as goodlooking girls that will help make you better and happier.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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squirrels

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Who said the "number scale" applies solely to looks??

BTW, I haven't had enough experience to say, but from what I've HEARD, the 7s and 8s are usually BETTER sex than the really hot girls because the really hot ones have never needed to be good in bed. Just being hot is enough for most guys.

That being said, if it was between a "10" who was an airhead and just sort of laid there in bed and a "7" who I could hold an interesting conversation with, knew how to have fun, and was also freaky in bed, you KNOW which way I'M going. ;)
 

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This one's easy! Go for the smart 7! Looks fade, personality doesnt. Im finding this out first hand. Ive dated 3 girls in the past year that were easy 8's. Yeah sure they were good looking but there was no chemistry, no personality, and they all ended up being arrogant *****es. Nothing but games! I am now dating this HB 6-7 and she is by far the best one ive ever dated! She is fun, has a great personality, smart, and so far, since we havent gone all the way, seems fun in bed (hand jobs, blow jobs.....etc.) I found a potential LTR!
 

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Both.

:D
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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CamaroMike said...

"it's hard to find a girl who is as goodlooking as a supermodel and smart"


-If it were easy then none of us would be on this board and we would all have goodlooking supermodel gfs.

"A 10 that most likely won't help you grow as a man (but you'll get the crazy sex), or not as goodlooking girls that will help make you better and happier."

-It depends on where you are in your life and what you are looking for in a woman.

The best advice that I can give you in whatever decision you make it to not 'just settle' for someone who does not meet your standards.
 

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Tylerdurden has this theory where there are a certain breed of girl he calls 'professional hotties'. These chicks spend almost all their time doing makeup, getting facials, body waxing, getting surgery, going to the gym, tanning beds etc, and basically looking hot so they can get noticed and picked up by guys - which leaves them no time for any kind of real education or career. :D
 

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finding a smart great looking girl is not hard, it's just hard to find one that likes YOU
 

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i agree with the guy above. haha

on a sidenote, sometimes everydone does get tired of the sex one way or another.

one time, i had this girl going down on me and then i just told her to stop. she was flustered but i just said i wanna hug her. she loved me for that.

just one of those rare moments in life.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Go for the 10! You'll find that a whole lot of 8's, 9's and 10's will be wondering what it is you've got to have such a hottie and will want your attention. Women are weird like that, they are 10 times more interested in you when you already have a girl.

You'll soon be able to trade up to one of these HB's who is also smart, funny and root like rattlesnakes!
 
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