"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Theres this HB9 whos at this new job i started off the other week. The girl is seriously into me and vice versa. I only just started off last weekend and there were already some serious signs of interest from her. I was then obviously giving off the same vibe and showing her i was up for it too.

Anyway, tommorrow is the first time im going to see her again since Sunday, as its a weekend job. Now with the week off i have been thinking to myself whether i should even take the next step. I was basically in full throttle for the first two days as i didnt really get time to stop and think about whether i should hold back with my moves. But now with this week break ive began thinking whether this is a good idea, with it being a general big no-no doing anything with a girl at work. But from my point of view im thinking whats the worse that could happen?

Ok, worst possible situation - we could get into a relationship, break up on bad terms and completely blank eachother while we're at work. No biggie, id still be getting my pay. So then whats the problem in getting with this girl at work?

Also of note this girl is a serious HB! Id have to be fukin gay to reject her! Brunette, perfect face and a nice plum ass which needs to be done from behind.

This is a bit of a tough situation. So im just asking, why is it a general bad thing to get into a ltr with a girl from work?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Also any sort of advice on this situation apart from my original question? On what i should do.
 
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only get involved with people at the workplace if you plan to leave within a month.
 
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bang a gong

Just bang a gong, what's the issue?
 
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Dude, you're 17, having awesome sex means more than your $7 / hour, courtesy clerking at Longs. Seriously, hit it.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Go for it or you will regret it later.

This isn't a career it's a weekend job. Plus it ain't no big deal at your age and position, it's not like your her 15 years older manager.
 
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Yeh it wasnt like i was going to step back this weekend and go totally gay on her. I just got a few doubts as it is said by a lot of people that it is a bad idea getting with a girl from work.

On the job, im actually planning on having it for at least a year as i do get some good ass pay for a part time job and well if things did get REALLY bad between us, id just tell her to drop the job or something.

After this weekend i actually cant see her being an ltr anyway but eh ill see how it goes. She seems a bit of a ditsy slut after getting to know her more, which is dissapointing considering how good looking she is. I didnt even have to work to get her number. She came out with 'hey whats your number, ill text you when im bored or something'. Yeh right more like ull text me when u want some ****.

On the work-girl thing, has anyone got any experiences to share with girls and work? Just any sort of experience.
 
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