"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Shaking the Load Off 2015

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I hope everyone was able to shake any and every load off after last night. I had to wait for the right time to post. I hope you all continue to manifest your experiences courageously in the field. Everyday entrenched, is Training Day. There's a Big Ocean, Pacific to Atlanic, within the ebbs and flows of life. Attain the best equipment you can possibly muster, and navigate those seas. Wether you are a noob or vet, with a wingman or solo, BE GREAT. Accept nothing less, and THINK that way of yourself as well.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I did some "shaking the load off" earlier today.
 
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