"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Shaking the Load Off 2015

Quantum_Leaper

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I hope everyone was able to shake any and every load off after last night. I had to wait for the right time to post. I hope you all continue to manifest your experiences courageously in the field. Everyday entrenched, is Training Day. There's a Big Ocean, Pacific to Atlanic, within the ebbs and flows of life. Attain the best equipment you can possibly muster, and navigate those seas. Wether you are a noob or vet, with a wingman or solo, BE GREAT. Accept nothing less, and THINK that way of yourself as well.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Huffman

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I did some "shaking the load off" earlier today.
 
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