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Shaking a womans hand; how to do it?

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Okay, thanks for the help guys.

I've decided to shake her hand like I would with anyone else; firmly and confidently.

I won't kiss her hand, I won't do it with my palm up, I won't lick her eyelids. Just a regular handshake. Thank you.
 
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Now this is a funny question. I would of thought someone would be more interested in getting laid and not shaking hands but ...

In a business situation you give a formal handshake. You do not make a sex difference between men or women. Women who are in the business world expect to be treated like a professional.

In a private situation like at a club I won't shake a woman's hands cause I am not there to be a friend. I am there to bone her and to me shaking her hands puts me on her level. We are not equal. I am the predator and she is the prey.

Call me evil but it has worked very well for me. I will nod my head at her and drop my eyes at the same time. Or just smile at her to let her know that I acknowledge her presence.

The moment I touch a female is the moment that I start leading her and shaking hands is way too corny and school boyish for me.

I'm a player pure and simple not a buddy.

I will reach my hand out to lead her to the dance floor though.
 

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Five To One said:
Well im glad you know what to do from reading a book...
my advice came from my experience.

So your saying the upward palm will subconciously display submissive body language. Maybe thats so but I dont care and I dont think you should either, you dont need to show dominant body language 100 percent of the time to be a winner.

Shaking a woman's hand that I am actively persuing as I would a friend's hand seems very off.

Kissing the hand is on a rare occation, maybe even a little iffy but please dont grab a womans hand and dominate her with a firm handshake like shes an old friend of yours.



Its people like you that try to make everything down to a science; it cant and will never be done . Ill take my personal experiences over what a book says should be right any day.
I don't disagree with you at all. I honestly don't think it matters much at all how you shake any woman's hand unless you just hand her a dead fish. No, I don't always do the palm thing. In fact, I probably rarely do it because I just don't care. No, I am not one of those people that try to make this scientific. Meeting women isn't exactly a scientific subject so the scientific "conclusions" are inherently flawed. I made this post because people were advocating doing it with your palms up and I was just offering a little insight into the subject to make this thread interesting and give the readers a different perspective.
 

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TheRealSupreme said:
Now this is a funny question. I would of thought someone would be more interested in getting laid and not shaking hands but ...

In a business situation you give a formal handshake. You do not make a sex difference between men or women. Women who are in the business world expect to be treated like a professional.

In a private situation like at a club I won't shake a woman's hands cause I am not there to be a friend. I am there to bone her and to me shaking her hands puts me on her level. We are not equal. I am the predator and she is the prey.

Call me evil but it has worked very well for me. I will nod my head at her and drop my eyes at the same time. Or just smile at her to let her know that I acknowledge her presence.

The moment I touch a female is the moment that I start leading her and shaking hands is way too corny and school boyish for me.

I'm a player pure and simple not a buddy.

I will reach my hand out to lead her to the dance floor though.

Yes the handshake is more for formal business situation, unless you use the style I suggest. It should be universal and everyone that played with girls would know actually what it meant.

When you act like you gonna shake a females hand but instead do the gangsta meeting kinda handshake where start with the arm wrestling thumb grip then slide to the regular formal one but instead of shaking her hand, with your middle finger scratch her palm.

This is powerful nonverbal communication telling her you want to f*ck. She should know what that means and if guys on this forum don't then they got a lot of gaming to catch up on.

I've done this so many times to chics and they'll know longer categorize you in the friend zone but someone they would probably go to bed with.

Also it's unforgettable, play around and next time you see your guy friend and you shake his hand scratch his palm with your middle finger. He'll think your some kinda gay ball and probably punch you in the shoulder but it'll impact him and he'll do it to girls as something playful or ****y funny.

My gangsta friends would do this to me just to mess with me and that's why I'd start doing it to the babes. They'll know what you mean and you don't even have to say a word. And if they say I know what that means " you can always deny and say what are you talking about, but they know."

I just gave yall the best playful fun technique that'll score you points with chics and yall be foolish if you don't take advantage of it.
 
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