"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Sh8t......what do i do?

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A couple of weeks ago at some out of school event I met this one girl and well she seemed like a great girl......great looks, great personality. So we excahnge numbers and she says she wants to hang out. Well that never happened cus she got grounded til the end of march for getting caught smoking the reefer. But she still wants to when she gets ungrounded.

Here's the thing.....she looks older and I thought she was a jr and 17. Last night I find out she's only 15 (almost 16) and a soph. I'm a senior and well over 18 (19 in 5 months). So I'm like shiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiit..........she's real cool but idk.......if anything happened if feel like im raping the **** out of her. What do you all think.....forget it or hang out and see how it goes?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Yeah I get you, girls grow real quick and become "chicks" from a young age. :)

If you're gonna do it, then make sure you won't get caught. Because is she tries to tell on you, she might contact the police or someone and get you arrested for sexual harrassment of an underage girl. I wouldn't advise on it personally. Just a small argument with her might cause her to do just that. Haven't you seen these situations in the news a bunch of times already?
 

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Spelunker said:
Dunno 'bout you, but here in Florida, 19-15 is perfectly legal.

I know this first-hand.
Ah, well, actually I dont live in the USA. Maybe our laws are just different. :)

Well if it's perfectly legal where you live, then go for it. I don't see why you should hesitate because of age. if you like her, then let's rock it! :rockon:
 

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Dunno 'bout you, but here in Florida, 19-15 is perfectly legal.

I know this first-hand.
Well, I'm not entirely sure about that. I thought when you're over 18 you only get 2 years of difference before it counts as statutory rape. If not, then I guess you're okay, but I would proceed with caution. :down:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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