"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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You, sir, are very perceptive. Once realising what the perfect husband/father is (from the warped female perspective), I'm not willing to go to that extreme to fit the model that women have. I'm simply not inclined to enter that frame. Maybe I just don't want it that much; call it a 'sticking point', if you will, but it's where I draw a line in the sand.

Women are quite frankly crazy, neurotic, and sick. As I said in a previous post, my uncle was the better husband, yet he got ditched (I might point out that this alpha male has since cheated on her several times, and she has remained with him lmao). Consider the PUA technique of social proof and how it actually makes very little societal and logical sense to a woman's security:

http://no-maam.blogspot.co.uk/2004/06/bonecrcker-172-social-proofing-has.html

You're right; I have enough experience with women now that I know the overwhelming responsibilities/obligations that falls on a husband in a marriage. The 6th iron rule in The Rational Male is Women are incapable of loving men the way that men want to be loved by women; women love opportunistically. Now, I've only just finished this book, but I had this figured out through experience by the time I was 21-22, and that pretty much ended marriage as an option for me. Just like with any woman or situation, if i'm not going to get what I want, I won't invest.

The main benefit from a marriage or LTR for me would be able to just be myself and switch off from game. At least with the randoms that I pick up off the street, I can switch game on and off when I like. Gaming 24-7 is too much, and completely undesirable to me. I have a lot of respect for you and others that aren't tools, partake in marriage from a masculine frame, and make it work, but I really don't think it's what I want - at least not right now.


Thank you.


Marriage is a huge responsibility if the correct way to be doesn't come naturally to you. Why not mold your personality into the game personality in order to free your mind from consciously gaming her. Once you become game, so to speak, your mind is free to do whatever. Much like how it's natural to be a hopeless romantic it could be natural to be game. Ya know?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Thank you.


Marriage is a huge responsibility if the correct way to be doesn't come naturally to you. Why not mold your personality into the game personality in order to free your mind from consciously gaming her. Once you become game, so to speak, your mind is free to do whatever. Much like how it's natural to be a hopeless romantic it could be natural to be game. Ya know?
Yes, I agree, it should be automatic.
 
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