"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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You, sir, are very perceptive. Once realising what the perfect husband/father is (from the warped female perspective), I'm not willing to go to that extreme to fit the model that women have. I'm simply not inclined to enter that frame. Maybe I just don't want it that much; call it a 'sticking point', if you will, but it's where I draw a line in the sand.

Women are quite frankly crazy, neurotic, and sick. As I said in a previous post, my uncle was the better husband, yet he got ditched (I might point out that this alpha male has since cheated on her several times, and she has remained with him lmao). Consider the PUA technique of social proof and how it actually makes very little societal and logical sense to a woman's security:

http://no-maam.blogspot.co.uk/2004/06/bonecrcker-172-social-proofing-has.html

You're right; I have enough experience with women now that I know the overwhelming responsibilities/obligations that falls on a husband in a marriage. The 6th iron rule in The Rational Male is Women are incapable of loving men the way that men want to be loved by women; women love opportunistically. Now, I've only just finished this book, but I had this figured out through experience by the time I was 21-22, and that pretty much ended marriage as an option for me. Just like with any woman or situation, if i'm not going to get what I want, I won't invest.

The main benefit from a marriage or LTR for me would be able to just be myself and switch off from game. At least with the randoms that I pick up off the street, I can switch game on and off when I like. Gaming 24-7 is too much, and completely undesirable to me. I have a lot of respect for you and others that aren't tools, partake in marriage from a masculine frame, and make it work, but I really don't think it's what I want - at least not right now.


Thank you.


Marriage is a huge responsibility if the correct way to be doesn't come naturally to you. Why not mold your personality into the game personality in order to free your mind from consciously gaming her. Once you become game, so to speak, your mind is free to do whatever. Much like how it's natural to be a hopeless romantic it could be natural to be game. Ya know?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Thank you.


Marriage is a huge responsibility if the correct way to be doesn't come naturally to you. Why not mold your personality into the game personality in order to free your mind from consciously gaming her. Once you become game, so to speak, your mind is free to do whatever. Much like how it's natural to be a hopeless romantic it could be natural to be game. Ya know?
Yes, I agree, it should be automatic.
 
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