sh1t test central

[bcollarmechanic]

ill try to make this as short as possible but this is a pretty confusing **** test and would like to get everyone's opinion

on my way home from Philly i stop at a quick check about an hour from where i live to grab a drink, as i get out of my car i spot this really cute blond taking out the garbage, theres also a few douches in a car a few feet away checking her out and i decide to be the man in all of this and approach her

i put a smile on and walk up to her

once i approach her i look at the douches way quickly and smile, they give me a dirty look and drive away (just a little humor)



me- i just had to come up and say youre really cute

her- (laughs) thanks

me- hi im bcollar

her- im j****

me-(jokingly) so do you get hit on by a lot of guys working her

her- mostly middle aged men so its a little creepy (laughs)

me- that does sound creepy lol, do you have a bf?

her- yes i do

me- so if i ask for your number would you say no (big grin)

her- well im not sure how i feel about you yet?

me- what do you mean?

her- i cant tell if your committed, come here next week and ill give you my number, then ill know youre committed

me- i dont play those kinds of games, give me your number now and ill call you and if youre lucky ill take you, if not ill be on my way (im about to turn away)

her- well how about this, ill give you half my number now and the other half when you come back

me- (laughs) i dont think so

her- well the thing is i do have a bf but we're in an open relationship, we dont date other people but we can do other stuff you know

me- so youre saying youll let me kiss you (big grin)

her- not when i look and smell like ****, plus im old fashioned you have to pamper me up first (jokingly)

me- well i dont look so great myself, my hairs greasy and i probably stink, ok thats a lie i know i always look great (at this point i thought screw it and i try to kiss her)

her- (she turns her head so i cant) not yet i look like **** and my co workers are watching and i know for a fact they like my bf and might not be happy

me- well you have to admire my confidence (jokingly)

her- might be confidence or you might be ****y (smiles)

me- well they go hand and hand lol

her- i have to get back to work, so if you want my number to take my out come back next week, also ill be the one giving away the first kiss

me- i thought you were old fashioned?

her- im half and half

me- well i guess youll have to wait to see if youre luck enough for me to come back (smile, then get in my car and leave)

im thinking about stopping there on friday before 10pm on my way to Philly, which is the time she get off

i was thinking of telling her something like "youre going to let me take you out now, i didnt come back for just a number" (jokingly of course) but i want to see if i can get her to go out, she seems like she might be an easy escalate

what do you guys think?

 

[El Payaso]

She's either a raving slvt or a c0ck tease. Some people here will say one-strike rule and all that but I say try again at the next time you planned and see what happens.

 

[bcollarmechanic]

She's either a raving slvt or a c0ck tease. Some people here will say one-strike rule and all that but I say try again at the next time you planned and see what happens.

i did think slut at first, i always follow the 2 strike rule, just dont know how to proceed, ill go friday and see how it plays out

one thing that i found interesting is what a friend told me, he said she might be looking for someone to take her bfs place and thats the reason for the commitment check

 

[bcollarmechanic]

any other advice or thoughts?

 

[Night-hawk]

It could be anything. Just assume the sale so far and keep us posted on the next encounter. Props to the approach and you set a playful frame, so just keep a keen eye on how she reciprocates.

 

[Atom Smasher]

Your problem might be lost momentum. The better I get at this the more I realize the critical importance of maintaining momentum.

Give them a chance to think and they can easily have an entirely different attitude about you when you next see each other. Usually you need to overcome the AS defense. Plus, she has most likely been back with her boyfriend in the interim.

You sure you want to indulge in sloppy seconds though bro? The very thought would make me steer clear.

 

[Bingo-Player]

ok a few things

1) im 90% certain there is no boyfriend

2) how old is this chick

3)for me your frame is too much for a first encounter and is border-lining arrogant , this is the sort of stuff you want to be using on a first date in a closed environment with her

no chick in her right mind is going to kiss a guy she's met 5 mins ago whilst she's in work and all her colleagues are watching come on

4) she offered you a perfectly sweet deal in giving you half the number now and half when you return next time but you pushed too hard...........some will say she was playing games but at the end of the day you would have had a reason to return and legitimately ask her on a date its no skin off your back

go back and see her again my guess is you will get the date she seems interested

good luck

 

[bcollarmechanic]

ok a few things

1) im 90% certain there is no boyfriend

2) how old is this chick

3)for me your frame is too much for a first encounter and is border-lining arrogant , this is the sort of stuff you want to be using on a first date in a closed environment with her

no chick in her right mind is going to kiss a guy she's met 5 mins ago whilst she's in work and all her colleagues are watching come on

4) she offered you a perfectly sweet deal in giving you half the number now and half when you return next time but you pushed too hard...........some will say she was playing games but at the end of the day you would have had a reason to return and legitimately ask her on a date its no skin off your back

go back and see her again my guess is you will get the date she seems interested

good luck

i didnt include everything because it would be too much to type

i asked her how old she was and she said 19, she then asked me, i told her to guess, she guessed 24 which is correct but i responded by telling her she may be right or she may be wrong and she'll find out if she lets me take her out

she was bothered by this but in a playful manner, i was able to tell in her facial expressions

the reason i went for the kiss is because i was able to tell she was really interested in me, ive done this before in my high school years and it always worked but maybe im getting too old for it lol

the whole "ill give you half my number now and half it later" threw me off, i really cant see the point

i did plant a final interest keeper, i asked her before i left the next day she was working and the time, she told me Wednesday 2-10, i responded by saying something like "we'll see if youre lucky enough for me to come back"

so she is probably going to be expecting me Wednesday and when i dont show itll probably drive her crazy

i guess ill have to wait to Friday to see, hopefully her interest level stays up

 

[bcollarmechanic]

Your problem might be lost momentum. The better I get at this the more I realize the critical importance of maintaining momentum.

Give them a chance to think and they can easily have an entirely different attitude about you when you next see each other. Usually you need to overcome the AS defense. Plus, she has most likely been back with her boyfriend in the interim.

You sure you want to indulge in sloppy seconds though bro? The very thought would make me steer clear.

if its a quick pump and dump then its another notch on my belt, ive had gfs cheat on me before thats the same as sloppy seconds