Sh1t I don't even know anymore...

[moneyisking]

I am thinking, man am I ever going to get rid of v-tag?

I was walking in walmart yesterday and thought that I really don't care about

women whatsoever. It's just to be able to be the cool dude that is happy

and have skills, mental status, mind and soul to be able to make any girls

desire me... Dam it, I am feeling sad..



This thing is too complicated.

Pay her attention, but be aloof
Give her compliment but don't put her on the pedestal
Don't be a jerk but tease her, neg her, bust her balls
etc

Dam, I want to be comfortable in my own skin and actually like myself..

 

[jtlancer]

This thing is too complicated.

No. It's like everything worth having. It takes just that little
bit more effort than the average person will put in.
Don't be average. F8ck average.
There is no fail. There is no try. Success begins with the
first painful rep. So do something and then analyze AFTER.
Go to a club and look at all the people standing doing NOTHING.
Do something. Anything. No expectations. You'll find it's fun.
Start there.

 

[Demonicale]

My advice is to let it happen when it happens (yes try to make it happen) ... but i lost my virginity to a nobody i can't remember .. and wish to god i had it again to lose it to someone worth losing it to.

So don't rush it!

 

[Radharc]

To me there´s 2 ways to ago about it: you either care about getting women but are able to control the pressure and perform, having nerves of steel and be able to deliver under pressure, and that´s like putting the you that can not feel anything and just focus on the task in charge for a while - this is harder.

The other way is to have so much stuff going on in your life that you genuinely dont care too much. And just go with the flow, it kinda the like just be "yourself" stuff, but first you have to turn into a self that is trully appealing to women.

The problem seems that you are trying to perform while caring a lot and letting all sorts of emotions take over in the moment.

 

[moneyisking]

haha to be honest... i dont know anymore... i look at guys that are good with women and just amaze me... how do they do that?

 

[SharinganUser]

Dude, don't worry about it. Virgin is just some archaic term that has no real meaning. And it sounds like you are over complicating this, much like I used to. Honestly, if you see someone you want, just go for it. You wont always get what you want, but if you keep at it and keep some basic tips in mind you'll get better at getting what you want. Or you could just pay for a hooker.

 

[goldStandard]

I lost my virginity to my high school relationship of 5 years. Been a reborn virgin many times due to multiple dry spells and got over them with many flings.

My opinion, losing my virginity was just a stepping stone. get it over with. If losing your virginity helps you become more comfortable talking to girls you could potentially be raising the chances of meeting more women...

If you don't mind being a creeper/borderline "is that guy gay" type just to wait for that special someone than that's cool too i guess