"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Sh!t Test?

DJx420

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Hey guys,

I made my decision a few weeks ago to NOT stick to this site because the #1 way to learn about game is to experience.

So I just tried something out this past Monday. I read here a little that some guys think taht after you "hook-up" with a girl you should call a day or 2 later just to talk. Well I didn't work my confidence up to that level however I did send a text to this girl (I know pvssy right -- but I just didn't know wtf I was going to say on the phone for 10 minutes and just be like ok nice talking to you bye).

So I extended each time I responded to her by liek 30 minutes (to make sure that the convo went as long as possible). Finally I sent a text about 3 hours after we started talking. She just didn't answer out of nowhere!

Still go no answer yesterday.

So my question is, could this have been a sh!t test? You think she could have done that on purpose to see if I would get frusturated enough to text her again.

Also, what do you think my plan of action should be? Still no texting/calling since she cut off contact first correct?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Well let me ask you this:during these "extended talks" between you two,what did you talk about? Be specific. What EXACTLY did you talk about?
 

DJx420

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Well I got with her on friday and something quite interesting happened with her (real funny story) so I opened with something like that...

We talked about the night for a little, about how the rest of her weekend was with her dad (her dad was visiting), and how whenever were together she always gets real fvcked up...the text I sent her that she didn't answer was an answer to a question she asked. She asked how I could possibly go out on saturday since friday was so intense. I answered and she didn't respind to it.
 
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