Sh!t Test

[Lil Magic]

First, if there's a girl your talking to, know each other for sometime but take advantage of halloween to talk to her, if she says this, is this a Sh!t test and if it is how would u counter it.
Her: (she says something, cant remember but slightly offensive)
Me:you dont like me very much, do you?
Her: nope...not at all

then the same girl ask this, only girl out of like 20 for halloween, including girls who i met that night
meput my arm over her shoulder)
her: why is your arm on me

 

[MisterMcGee]

Depends how you react. She's being rude for a reason, and showing you her rudeness for a reason. It's better than her simply being polite and forgetting you're even there doing anything. You should react like you don't care and... well, like a man. Your arm is on her. Who cares. Take your arm off of her and be like "Ah you're boring " and go somewhere else.

 

[daygameguy]

Your mistake is not what your reply was to her sh1t test. Your mistake is in your game leading to the sh1t test.

Your game seem to lack the element of attraction, hence every move that you make seems like you are hitting on her for no reason other than her looks.

Your kino maybe miscalibrated.

ANwyay, on getting that sh1t test, you could say:
1. you know what, we should totally get married, we would fight all the time and the neighbours would get so pissed they would start throwing stuff in our backyard.. free shoes free boots who know maybe free TV sets haha

2. OK. note to self - don't date her. / or something CnF like that.

3. You know what, I have never met a girl who could stand up for herself and be strong and confident like you are. Respect for that.

<Take control of your higher status by showing her she met YOUR standards>

 

[shaunuk]

Nah, don't start using those generic ****y funny lines that daygameguy suggested. They're generic and come across as weird if not delivered pretty well.

None of us were there to hear her voice tone and see exactly what she meant by the question, but in general: just take your arm off her and shrug it off. If she did say it jokingly just be cool.

 

[daygameguy]

Nah, don't start using those generic ****y funny lines that daygameguy suggested. They're generic and come across as weird if not delivered pretty well.

None of us were there to hear her voice tone and see exactly what she meant by the question, but in general: just take your arm off her and shrug it off. If she did say it jokingly just be cool.

It doesn't matter if they are generic. They are simple "sound bytes" where the girl can sense your emotional state after the sht test.

Its not what you say or do, its what you communicate. And you can do whatever you want as long as you communicate the right emotional state:
non needy, higher value, and unaffected by her sh1t test by showing her that you are in a positive state no matter what.

 

[Jeffst1980]

It's pretty time consuming to generate a ****y and funny line for every s#it test, so here's a trick to get you into the mindset:

Treat her like you would a 3 year old child that just said something offensive.

Don't react and try to qualify yourself to her. Brush it off as slightly humorous and tease her instead, then put it behind you and don't give it another thought. You can even call her out on it by saying something like, "Wow, is that how you learned to flirt with guys? Let's try this again." Then, just plow straight throw without giving it a second thought.

S#it tests aren't a bad sign; they're something of a necessary evil. If you can diffuse a girl's s#it test by remaining confident, she will melt. The girl in the group that throws the s#it tests at you is usually the easiest to seduce.

 

[chinwaggler]

Seems like she just wasn't interested. And why did you ask if she likes you very much....

 

[MisterMcGee]

Don't be a weak acceptance seeker. This is how you pass **** tests. Why are you so worried about a **** test from a girl who is busting your nuts?
She isn't interested. Why? because you let her **** tests affect you, and thus she "passes" on you. She may have been able to become interested in you, but you aren't very interest-worthy cause you dont seem to be very confident or anything to her. Pass her next **** tests, boost your value, and so forth to get back in the game.