Ok so basically I met this girl, ons, as we talked we realised we liked each other more than that and proceeded to spend quite a bit of time together with us being exclusive to each other following hints from her (it's important that it was her that initiated us being exclusive).
After a while I gauged that something wasn't right, turns out she'd just got out of a ltr and weren't 'ready' to date again (the beta in me told me this is cause she wants to fu*k loads of strangers :/
Anyway we carried on having sex and now there's a bit of distance between us (physically, she lives quite far away) we're always texting but she always stops little things in to banter such as mentioning other guys who've asked her out or fit guys her mates want her to date. Plus she always encourages me to be with other girls etc for example I got a text this morning (following my birthday she knew I was drinking etc) saying 'hope you didn't have to go to bed alone'
To me all of this reeks of her sha*ging other guys and pushing me to sh*g other girls so she doesn't feel bad. The beta in me wanted to reply along the lines of 'why do you say that? Did you not have to go to bed alone last night?' but I know I shouldn't and should tb along the alpha lines of 'now that would be telling', 'you know my bed, never empty' or 'who says I slept in my bed'. But I'd rather not play games lol
So my questions are: 1. What do you guys think is going on?
2. How should I reply to the text (and further sh*t tests)?
3. What should I do in the long term?
Ps she is moving back near me next year and truth be told I'd like to date her then, maybe this year is a chance for the 2 of us to have fun etc but then again the thought of her with another guy knocks me sick. Please help guys, much appreciated.
Bizzle
After a while I gauged that something wasn't right, turns out she'd just got out of a ltr and weren't 'ready' to date again (the beta in me told me this is cause she wants to fu*k loads of strangers :/
Anyway we carried on having sex and now there's a bit of distance between us (physically, she lives quite far away) we're always texting but she always stops little things in to banter such as mentioning other guys who've asked her out or fit guys her mates want her to date. Plus she always encourages me to be with other girls etc for example I got a text this morning (following my birthday she knew I was drinking etc) saying 'hope you didn't have to go to bed alone'
To me all of this reeks of her sha*ging other guys and pushing me to sh*g other girls so she doesn't feel bad. The beta in me wanted to reply along the lines of 'why do you say that? Did you not have to go to bed alone last night?' but I know I shouldn't and should tb along the alpha lines of 'now that would be telling', 'you know my bed, never empty' or 'who says I slept in my bed'. But I'd rather not play games lol
So my questions are: 1. What do you guys think is going on?
2. How should I reply to the text (and further sh*t tests)?
3. What should I do in the long term?
Ps she is moving back near me next year and truth be told I'd like to date her then, maybe this year is a chance for the 2 of us to have fun etc but then again the thought of her with another guy knocks me sick. Please help guys, much appreciated.
Bizzle