This is my 1st post here. I have my own personal niche honed through traveling a ton, by approaching an absurd amount of women in many parts of the world, and via trial and error over a 13 year period - so I am just going to give it to you straight - no chaser. That said, I haven’t read anything of this forum yet, and my style may clash with some others, but I’ll just tell it to you from MY perspective of what you should not have done. Take what you will from this.
Your first mistake was putting her on a pedestal. NEVER, EVER, EVER, EVER treat a woman any different from another woman based on looks alone. It's called discipline, and it can take a while to develop, but I don't care if a woman is fat, skinny, tall, short, attractive, unattractive, or unimaginative, you have to use the exact same approach - EVERY TIME. This is gospel. It's like shooting free throws - you always use the same form on your release - treat the 2's (on a scale of 10) just like you would the 10's - treat them no different. That way, you’re always on alert; you’re constantly giving off a vibe of charm, and it’s a great way to keep your “game” from atrophying. Once you start putting women on Pedestals based solely on looks, you lose your "edge" - guys tend to get pu$$ified . And from where I sit, you gave her waay to much power - waaay too much leverage. And once the woman knows with 100% certainty she has the leverage - - Check Mate – Rook capture’s Queen. Check mate = "I'm a virgin and I don't want to have sex" speech.
On top of all of this, you committed the first deadly sin of dating. What sin you ask? You let her lead. Women are attracted to leaders – never forget that. They want to be lead, and by letting her lead, you went against nature's blueprint. How do I know you let her lead? Because you did exact same thing the last 17.5 guys she dated happened to do - you put her on the throne, and you fell for her VERY quickly based on looks alone. And you don't have to "tell" a woman you've fallen for her, or that you're in love with her, because that ugly unspoken truth is shown in the eyes my friend. Checkmate!
Now, on to your second and most egregious mistake -You "showed your hand" waaaaay, waaaay, waaaay to early. If you’re holding a pair Jacks, AKA - committing the second deadly sin of dating by falling for a woman before you know for certain she’s fallen for you, at least keep a poker face and “act” like you’re holding a straight flush. In laymen’s terms: Don’t give off the scent. You fell in love in 1 month??? Stick a fork in this young fella because he's done. 1 month??? Hell, you haven't even figured out her dirty little secrets and lies in 1 month - For instance, her probably not being a virgin. Not only should you NOT have fallen for her in 1 month, you should've been dating other women, and in a not so subtle manner, letting her know you were doing so. You should've given off a subconscious scent that she had to "work" to get your full attention; it's a two way street. The weapon of choice when dealing with a b!tchy attractive woman??? Drive up your stock price by creating a culture of competition. You do that by dating other women or hanging around other women (even if they are just friends) who are "equally" as attractive, and if possible, even more attractive than she is. Had you done that effectively, your stock price with her would’ve gone from a penny stock value to Google. Women are genetically programmed to get catty with other attractive women they deem as possible competition. On top of that, women can be EXTREMELY insecure, so you should’ve used that insecurity to your advantage, by letting her know through subconscious vibes, that at any time you could on the verge of “trading up”- or dating someone else who brings more to the table. I would’ve carefully and consciously played on said insecurities to twinge her jealously buttons in order to put her in a state of mental flux. Meaning, for the first time in a long-long time, she wasn’t the center of someone’s universe. And my experience has shown that the more attractive the woman, the better this will work.
I can go on further about do’s and don’ts – coulda’s and woulda’s but I’m sure you get the gist.
