Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Sh*t, I think I have a mild infatuation

zekko

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Most of you guys work way too hard . Your best asset is cool confidence and boldness.
Why get yourself into a panic state about IOI's, negs and all that "am I alpha enough " mythology.

IF a woman likes you she will forgive or overlook all manner of blunders because she wants to get to know you better.
If she does not like you, she will eject at the first flimsy opportunity.
All the PUA tips and tricks will never change how women operate.
You're basically saying most of this pickup theory stuff is worthless. I think I have to agree.

The main thing is you need the confidence to interact with her without a filter, to not react to her tests, and to not pedastalize her. Then let the chips fall where they may.

If she's out with four different guys in one week though, I don't know. Some of the top DJs here don't spin plates at that rate.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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zekko said:
You're basically saying most of this pickup theory stuff is worthless. I think I have to agree.

The main thing is you need the confidence to interact with her without a filter and to not pedastalize her. Then let the chips fall where they may.

If she's out with four different guys in one week though, I don't know. Some of the top DJs here don't spin plates at that rate.
I ain't on a date with her.. it's just a mutual friend's party. At the very least I'm hoping to grab her number.

And yea.. I'd agree that 3 guys is a lot in a week, but this girl is a legit 9 - she could very easily pass as a model.

Fortunately for me I'm handsome as hell - I think we'd go well together :up:
 

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I ain't on a date with her.. it's just a mutual friend's party. At the very least I'm hoping to grab her number.

And yea.. I'd agree that 3 guys is a lot in a week, but this girl is a legit 9 - she could very easily pass as a model.

Fortunately for me I'm handsome as hell - I think we'd go well together
Oh, I see. Well, three guys then. Not quite so crazy.
If she's a real HB9, it's no wonder she's getting so much action.
Best of luck to you, brother!
 

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SteR said:
I ain't on a date with her.. it's just a mutual friend's party. At the very least I'm hoping to grab her number.

And yea.. I'd agree that 3 guys is a lot in a week, but this girl is a legit 9 - she could very easily pass as a model.

Fortunately for me I'm handsome as hell - I think we'd go well together :up:
Don't forget to post a picture of your first born !!
 

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Stage 1 complete gentlemen - I got her number ;)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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