moneyisking
Master Don Juan
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i mentioned few times i am an asian from asian family, and i wasn't born here. it's been about 3 yrs i came to US and honestly, i thought the reason i do poorly with women might be b/c i still feel am not familiar with the culture.
i don't know, i feel easier around asians (not twinkies) and i feel comfortable speaking my own language to girls; as you probably know, every language has different slangs, concept, and expression, so i feel more calm, creative, and fun speaking my language to my people. i spoke english for more than 10 years and studying in university, but i still feel little alienated from american culture.
i mean forget about women i cant even make guy friends to hang out with me; im muscular, go to gym all the time, have A LOT of friends (that don't hang around with), i have good relationship with public, no problem meeting new people at all b/c i'm the one saying "wassup" lightly. but im just not getting the "real friend", i don't know why. i don't act desperately or anything.
you see some guys who are just cool and you want to hang out with him; i guess you can picture non-celebrity Brad or Jude Law chilling in the gym and you get to know them and think "man, hanging out with these motherfvckers can be fun". I don't have that. i am pretty cool guy, pretty good looking but i don't know man, it's weird. i know some dorky out of shape dudes having girlfriend or friends that hang out all the time. what am i missing?
i don't know, i feel easier around asians (not twinkies) and i feel comfortable speaking my own language to girls; as you probably know, every language has different slangs, concept, and expression, so i feel more calm, creative, and fun speaking my language to my people. i spoke english for more than 10 years and studying in university, but i still feel little alienated from american culture.
i mean forget about women i cant even make guy friends to hang out with me; im muscular, go to gym all the time, have A LOT of friends (that don't hang around with), i have good relationship with public, no problem meeting new people at all b/c i'm the one saying "wassup" lightly. but im just not getting the "real friend", i don't know why. i don't act desperately or anything.
you see some guys who are just cool and you want to hang out with him; i guess you can picture non-celebrity Brad or Jude Law chilling in the gym and you get to know them and think "man, hanging out with these motherfvckers can be fun". I don't have that. i am pretty cool guy, pretty good looking but i don't know man, it's weird. i know some dorky out of shape dudes having girlfriend or friends that hang out all the time. what am i missing?